3.1. Structural Constraints to Agency
With regard to structural factors, our final analysis included 272 first-person narratives; 111 from unmarried Syrian adolescent girls, 116 from married Syrian adolescent girls, and 45 from Syrian mothers telling a story about themselves from before they were 18. Several barriers to agency emerged including the following categories: access to education, economic opportunities, infrastructure and living conditions, access to healthcare, gender and social norms, discrimination and xenophobia and legal status. Results are outlined below.
3.1.1. Access to Education as a Barrier to Agency
Participants consistently described barriers to continuing their education in Lebanon. For many, education was a means of achieving future goals, securing financial independence, and delaying or avoiding early marriage. The interruption of schooling was repeatedly linked to a loss of hope, diminished security, and a sense of constrained futures.
Girls described how displacement and economic hardship forced them out of classrooms: “In Syria, we went to school. After the Syrian crisis, we stopped going to school because of financial reasons.” Others emphasized that even when education was technically available, it lacked accreditation or legitimacy: “I decided to stop my education because this is not a real certificate, so there is no point.” These narratives highlight that barriers were not only material but also institutional, eroding the perceived value of investing in education.
Safety and mistreatment also emerged as recurring deterrents. One girl recalled: “Harassment in school so I stopped school.” Another explained, “Poor quality of education; mistreatment from teachers,” pointing to experiences that made school not just unproductive but actively harmful. In some families, gendered restrictions compounded these challenges: “Girls were not allowed to go to school.” In other cases, education gave way to economic necessity, with children working instead of studying: “We couldn’t get into school so we started working.”
Girls often linked education with empowerment, contrasting the “voicelessness” of early marriage to the agency they associated with learning. As one participant explained: “I loved learning […] I was married at a young age, and I acted emotionally rather than rationally. I couldn’t secure my rights, but an older woman would have fought for her rights.” Another poignantly framed education as a form of resistance: “I advise you that if you have girls that are below 18, never pull them out of schools, a woman’s weapon is her education.”
3.1.2. Economic Opportunities as Barriers to Agency
Participants described the lack of economic opportunities and financial strain as major barriers influencing their ability to act with agency. Families struggled to secure adequate income, and these pressures directly affected girls’ education and life choices. One participant explained, “Since we first left Syria we came here, we worked but couldn’t make enough money, and we couldn’t put our children in school.” Another similarly reflected, “We’ve been here in Lebanon for 5 years. The situation is difficult. We are forced to work long hours and we still don’t have enough.” These accounts show how financial pressures limited not only immediate options but also opportunities for the future.
Adolescent girls frequently spoke of being drawn into work themselves or of siblings leaving school to contribute to the household income. As one participant described, “After we came to Lebanon, we all started working, even though I was still very young.” Another recounted, “My brother left school because he had to help provide for the family.” These stories highlight how economic hardship shifted responsibility onto children, curtailing their education and narrowing their future opportunities.
Participants recognized the trade-offs between education and labor. One girl explained, “We should be in schools, but we are obliged to work instead.” Another shared the day-to-day struggle of laboring without relief: “We work all day and can barely afford food.” For many, economic insecurity meant that agency was constrained to strategies of survival rather than long-term planning or self-determined choices.
3.1.3. Infrastructure and Living Conditions as Barriers to Agency
Narratives pointed to the absence of basic services such as water, electricity, and sanitation, which not only created daily hardships but also eroded girls’ sense of security and dignity. One girl observed, “The situation here is not good at all. As you can see, there’s no water, no electricity, and no bathrooms.” Others echoed this precariousness with statements like “Life here is not comfortable at all; everything is missing” and “When we were in Syria, we had a house, during the war our house was destroyed and now we live in very poor conditions.”
The shift from secure houses in Syria to fragile tents in Lebanon was described as deeply disempowering. As one girl vividly recounted, “Back home, I was living happily and comfortable in a secured, brick house, but in the refugee camps, I live in a tent where snakes and rats would come in. Three of my children were bit by rats […] If I want to take them to a hospital, I have to go to Zahle, and there is no mean of transportation there, nor do I have financial means to afford the trip. We are not living comfortably in these tents knowing that the rats can rip them.”
Living in tents or temporary camps was repeatedly contrasted to the comfort and dignity of former homes, with one adolescent noting, “I displaced to Lebanon with my husband, and I live in a tent. We have two daughters. I am not used to live in a tent. I am not comfortable here. In Syria, I was more comfortable.” Others described how unsafe neighborhoods and deteriorating infrastructure outside the home restricted mobility, with parents often prohibiting girls from leaving the house, as reported by this participant “So the girl was not allowed to leave the house because the area was unsafe.”
3.1.4. Access to Healthcare as a Barrier to Agency
Participants described challenges in accessing healthcare as an important barrier influencing their agency. Narratives pointed to the high cost of services, the distance to hospitals and clinics, and the lack of reliable transportation, all of which combined to make medical care difficult to obtain. As one girl explained, “When I was living in Syria, everything was secure and safe. Here in Lebanon, even if someone gets sick, we can’t take them to the doctor.” For many, these challenges limited their ability to act when health concerns arose.
Maternal and reproductive health needs were also prominent in the narratives. Several girls described giving birth or facing complications without professional medical support because hospitals were either too far away or unaffordable. One adolescent recalled, “I got married in Syria when I was 13 years old. When I gave birth here, there was no one to help me, and I couldn’t afford to go to the hospital.” Another shared, “I am 16 years old… when I was pregnant, I had to deliver without proper medical care, because the hospital was too expensive and far away.”
Other participants noted that the costs of healthcare often forced families to delay or forgo treatment. One girl explained, “We work all day and can barely afford food, so when my children are sick, we just wait and hope they get better instead of going to a clinic.” Another added, “The hardest thing we face here is hospitalization for our children; they don’t take them in without money, and we don’t have it.”
These accounts suggest that healthcare inaccessibility was experienced as a structural barrier to agency, as costs, distance, and lack of maternal health services constrained responses to illness or pregnancy and narrowed available adolescent girls’ choices.
3.1.5. Gender and Social Norms as Barriers to Agency
Cultural and gender norms influenced girls’ ability to shape their own lives, with some girls describing limited input into decisions about marriage and little room to challenge family or societal expectations. One participant explained, “My family forced me to marry when I was still a child.” Others described staying in marriages despite unhappiness because of the stigma surrounding divorce. As one adolescent put it, “Even if a woman is suffering, she has to stay with her husband, because if she leaves him, society will blame her.”
Family members often played decisive roles in whether girls could pursue education or other opportunities, illustrating how agency was mediated by gendered expectations. One adolescent reflected, “There’s a difference between my dad and mom. My mom encourages me to continue school, but my dad won’t let me.” Another explained the limits placed on her freedom after marriage: “My husband doesn’t let me go out or visit anyone; I have to stay at home all the time.”
Experiences of sexual and gender-based violence (SGBV) were also prominent. Girls reported both domestic violence and harassment in public spaces, which limited their participation in schooling, social life, and play. One adolescent explained, “My husband beats me whenever I ask to go out,” while another shared, “My mother-in-law hits me when she thinks I’m not doing enough housework.” Others described how harassment in public curtailed their mobility: “I used to go to school with my friends without fear, I used to go out with them to play without fear […] I can’t go out with my friends anymore because it’s not safe anymore.”
Mobility and participation in educational or social activities were further constrained by concerns over reputation and honour. One participant described withdrawing from courses due to community scrutiny: “When I came here, I started participating in courses with the United Nations and Norwegian, in Tripoli and here. But then I became scared from the society surrounding me, because they started talking about me and where I go. So I stopped.” Another added, “People talk badly about girls if they go out too much; they say she’s not respectable”. These accounts highlight how reputational concerns and social surveillance curtailed girls’ ability to engage in activities outside the home.
Domestic expectations also shaped girls’ everyday experiences, with many reporting that housework and caregiving consumed much of their time. One adolescent explained, “I spend all day cooking and cleaning; I don’t have time for anything else.” Another noted how this work affected her opportunities: “Since I got married, I stopped school because I have to stay at home and take care of the house.”
3.1.6. Discrimination and Xenophobia
Participants described xenophobia and discrimination as significant barriers shaping their agency. Narratives highlighted how social stigma and mistreatment limited opportunities in education, work, and daily life, and how being Syrian often carried connotations of devaluation. One girl captured this sentiment directly: “When you say ‘Syrian’ it’s just as if you mentioned something filthy, they treat you like an animal here, they don’t give you any sort of value.”
Discrimination was particularly noted in schools, where girls reported harassment, bullying, and unfair treatment from both peers and teachers. One participant explained, “In Syria, we were very happy. I reached the 9th grade. When we came here, I couldn’t continue because the teachers mistreated me, they didn’t teach me, and they failed me on purpose”. Another noted being excluded from schools altogether or targeted with bullying: “I could not continue my education in the hosting country; they didn’t accept me and I was bullied.”
For others, discrimination extended beyond school into housing and the workplace. One participant shared, “Here in the building the treatment is horrible. They hurt us a lot with their words, they curse my husband. He works as the building’s concierge.” Another recalled verbal abuse while working in the fields: “We are always verbally abused and cursed. In our work as farmers, as well, we are constantly told that we are stupid and looked down upon, but despite the disrespect that we face, we must keep working to get money.” Others described being denied employment altogether, as one explained: “No one was employing any Syrian worker.”
For many participants, these experiences were not confined to one setting but reflected broader patterns of humiliation and exclusion. As one adolescent summarized, “We got humiliated a lot, everything’s different here, they don’t treat us like human beings.” These narratives suggest that xenophobia and discrimination functioned as structural barriers that eroded dignity, limited access to education and work, and narrowed the scope of agency for Syrian adolescent girls in Lebanon.
3.1.7. Legal Status as a Barrier to Agency
Participants described legal status as a central barrier to agency, with expired or absent residency permits limiting access to education, registration of marriages and births, and basic services. One participant recalled, “Two of her daughters were very young when they were displaced […] she wasn’t able to either get their identification cards or to enroll them in any school. Now, they are 17 and 18 years old […] they do not have any legal documentation. So, they weren’t able to register their marriages in the embassy.” One adolescent explained, “We got married, but we do not have any legal papers to prove our marriage […] I am worrying about not being able to register my child when I give birth.”
The absence of valid papers also shaped daily life by restricting mobility and access to services. One girl summarized, “We can’t do anything without our papers and our official IDs.” Another recounted how lack of legal status kept her family confined: “The family is not staying legally, consequently they cannot go outside of the house often.”
Several participants described the financial strain of attempting to secure residency, including the costs of sponsors and paperwork. One adolescent explained, “I went to renew my papers, but the UN didn’t renew […] so I had to find a sponsor. I paid 200$ for me, and 200$ for my husband and 100$ for the papers. I had to borrow the money. I’m living illegally here.” Such accounts illustrate how legal recognition was tied to financial resources many families did not have, further reinforcing exclusion.
3.2. Structural Enablers of Agency
We noted three main categories of structural agency enhancers, namely access to community services, parental support, and other social supports. These external supports were shown to improve sense of independence and well-being, protect girls from SGBV, and support decisions to not marry at a young age.
3.2.1. Access to Community Services
Many girls noted access to community services, including courses, skills training programs and the opportunity to meet other Syrians enhanced their freedom and potential. One participant explained, “I used to go to the organization every day to attend the courses, and it was the only time I felt free.” Some noted a preference for attending Syrian-specific resources that connected them with peers who shared similar experiences. As one girl shares, “Here I didn’t register into a school. Abaad [local grassroots organization] provides us with these activities which allow us to express our potential to some extent.”
These organizations often offered practical, transferable skills. One girl shared how NGO involvement created the possibility of economic independence: “We had to move to Lebanon because of the war, and I began work in a hair salon. At the moment, I am working with an NGO that takes care of camps, and if the association’s plans work, they promised to equip me with whatever I need to open my own hair salon.” Others described taking sewing and parenting courses that equipped them with tangible skills for everyday life.
Even basic forms of support were experienced as enabling. One adolescent recalled, “First when we were in Syria, everything was available… here [in Lebanon] the UN and NGOs help us with food and aid.” Though modest, this assistance provided stability and recognition that helped families survive displacement.
3.2.2. Parental Support
A second category of external support came from parents. Mothers in particular expressed a determination to protect their daughters especially from SGBV and early marriage. Some even intervened directly to shield their daughters from harm. One girl recalled, “A 13-year-old girl was going to her aunt’s to borrow something, when a man within the refugee compound stopped her and verbally abused her. She told her mom about what happened, so the mom went out and yelled at him for his unacceptable behavior.”
Parents also supported their daughters’ decision-making around marriage. For some, this meant delaying marriage until their daughters themselves were ready. One mother stated firmly, “Marriage is not allowed. I would never get them married until she thinks she wants to and can get married. As long as they are with me, I will protect them”. In other cases, parental support extended to validating girls’ decisions to divorce, challenging the social stigma surrounding separation. As one participant explained, “When I wanted to leave my husband, my mother stood by me and said it was better to be divorced than to stay suffering.”
Parental encouragement was equally important in education. Several participants described mothers who defended their daughters’ right to study. One adolescent explained, “My mother told me not to listen to what people say, to keep studying and learning.” Fathers too reinforced this message. One girl remembered, “My father told me education is your weapon, don’t give it up.” Parental advocacy and protection functioned as enabling structures that allowed Syrian adolescent girls to resist social pressures, pursue education, and exercise agency in deeply constrained contexts.
3.2.3. Social Networks
In addition to formal community services and parental support, many girls described the importance of friendships, peers, siblings and neighbors in sustaining their sense of agency by providing solidarity, encouragement, and protection. For some, friendships reinforced the pursuit of education. One participant recalled, “My twin sister and I used to study together in Syria, and we continued here, encouraging each other not to give up”. Another emphasized the role of peers in keeping her motivated, explaining, “I used to study with my friends, and together we encouraged each other to stay in school.”
Friendships also created moments of normalcy and joy. As one adolescent explained, “When I was with my friends, I felt like a child again.” Another reflected on how social ties gave her something to look forward to, “I have made new friends, and now I have every Thursday to look forward to when I go out and see them.”
Neighbors and extended family were also described as important enablers of agency in the absence of strong institutional safety nets. One participant shared, “In front of my house I saw my neighbours who were protecting me and helping me.” Others described how relatives stepped in with childcare, enabling them to return to school or participate in courses: “My relatives helped with my children so I could go back to classes.” Taken together, these accounts highlight that social networks were not just a source of companionship, but a structural enabler of agency.
3.3. Expressions of Individual Agency
Our analysis included 174 first-person stories: 88 from unmarried Syrian adolescent girls, 83 from married Syrian adolescent girls and 3 from Syrian mothers. From these accounts, seven interconnected themes emerged that together illuminate the process through which girls articulated and enacted individual agency: (1) Awareness and Acknowledgement of Barriers to Agency, (2) Emotional Navigation, (3) Resource Identification and Skill Enhancement, (4) Decision Making, (5) Future Planning and Desires, (6) Active Reflection, and (7) Action Execution.
3.3.1. Awareness and Acknowledgement of Barriers to Agency
Acknowledgement and awareness themselves functioned as an act of reflexivity, in which girls demonstrated insight into how macro-level social and political structures shaped their micro-level lives, decisions, and relationships. Rather than passively accepting these constraints, participants articulated how they recognized, interpreted, and in some cases challenged the structural obstacles surrounding them.
Girls described a nuanced understanding of multiple, intersecting barriers, including those related to education, economic opportunities, discrimination, safety, and shifting gender and social norms. As one adolescent explained, “In Syria, we were children. We liked adventures and playing. Here, we grew up. In Lebanon, we are working to support our families financially. This is what we are suffering from due to the war. We should be in schools, but we are obliged to work. We got married, and we have responsibilities. When we got married, we relieved our parents from our responsibility.” This reflection captures the layered way in which educational disruption was entangled with economic necessity and early marriage.
Similarly, in discussing economic opportunities, girls acknowledged that their Syrian identity heightened vulnerability to exploitation and constrained their ability to build social connections. Discrimination was frequently identified as a factor that not only limited access to jobs but also eroded self-esteem and contributed to stalled academic progress. One participant summarized this exclusion bluntly: “When you say ‘Syrian’, it’s just as if you mentioned something filthy, they treat you like an animal here, they don’t give you any sort of value.”
Awareness also extended to mobility and safety. Girls recognized how security concerns restricted their freedom of movement, often forcing them to remain at home. They noted how limited mobility curtailed schooling opportunities, increased the risk of early marriage, and exposed them to ongoing harassment regardless of marital status. As one girl explained, “Here I only spend time at home, I don’t go out, I don’t have friends... I’m not informed about what’s been going on outside.”
Finally, girls articulated how displacement had altered social norms, particularly around gender expectations, mobility, and marriage. They described how increased harassment in public spaces and heightened social scrutiny of girls’ reputations fostered a shift toward early marriage as a perceived form of protection. Awareness of these shifting norms reflected not resignation but an active cognitive process of situating themselves within rapidly changing social structures.
3.3.2. Emotional Navigation
Emotional recognition and navigation emerged as another element of individual agency. Girls described varied emotional responses to displacement and actively acknowledged and integrated these emotions into their everyday decision-making.
Frustration was a common response to disrupted schooling, poor working conditions, or tense relationships with in-laws. One adolescent explained, “I don’t go to school here, and it frustrates me. I was a good student. Now, I’m forgetting everything, all the material. I wish I could go back to school and start learning again”. Another described her daily struggles bluntly: “Life here is full of pressure. Work is hard, and even when I am tired, I have to keep going.”
Many participants expressed acceptance of responsibilities that came with early marriage, financial hardship, or the abrupt entry into adulthood. One girl reflected, “I got married young, but now I accept it. I have to take care of my family; this is my life.” Another noted, “We don’t have the same opportunities here, but I accept my situation and try to make the best of it.”
Despite hardship, some spoke of happiness or contentment, whether in marriage, in learning new languages (English and French), or in experiencing mobility through work. One girl captured this sense of cautious joy and hope: “I have made new friends, and now I have every Thursday to look forward to when I go out and see them. I love that I am healthy, and I wish that my situation gets better.” Another explained, “I was happy when I learned French here, because I felt like I was learning something new despite everything.”
Gratitude was also frequently articulated. Girls expressed appreciation for escaping war and for any support received after displacement. One participant shared, “Even though it’s hard here, I am grateful we left Syria alive. We have a roof, and we are safe.” Another noted, “I thank God for what we have, even if it’s little.”
Some described forgiveness as a coping mechanism, allowing them to release anger toward those who had mistreated them. As one adolescent explained, “My boss made me work long hours, but I forgave him because I need the job.” Another reflected on family conflict: “I forgive my parents for making me marry early; I know they thought it was for the best.”
Finally, many expressed optimism and excitement for small, everyday pleasures, which they framed as meaningful steps toward a better life. One girl said, “I was excited to visit Beirut for the first time; it made me feel alive again.” Another looked forward to her friendships, “When I see my friends, I feel hopeful again, like things can improve.”
Differences in expressed frustration, acceptance, or optimism reflected not only material conditions but also individualized emotional responses, emotional self-regulation and coping. By naming, accepting, and reframing emotions, girls demonstrated reflexive agency, illustrating that agency can lie in emotional regulation as well as overt action.
3.3.3. Resource Identification and Skill Enhancement
Identifying resources, seeking information, and engaging in skill-building activities highlight the proactive steps girls took to expand their options and prepare themselves for the future.
Many participants described efforts to locate legal and financial support through organizations and agencies. One girl explained, “I went to the UN to ask for help with my papers… even if they didn’t give me what I needed, at least I knew where to start.” Others described seeking sponsors or approaching community leaders for guidance, illustrating how even the act of identifying a potential pathway was experienced as meaningful.
Education and career planning were also prominent domains of resource-seeking. Several girls reported applying for scholarships, identifying schools that supported refugees, or inquiring about ways to pursue careers such as fashion design. As one explained, “I found an organization that teaches sewing, and now I make clothes for my family and hope to make it my work.” Others highlighted language acquisition as a deliberate skill-building strategy, with one adolescent sharing, “I was happy when I learned French here, because I felt like I was learning something new despite everything.”
Girls also sought resources in relation to safety and wellbeing. Some described turning to relatives, neighbors, or community networks when facing harassment or difficult family situations. One participant recounted, “I was married very quickly, and the problems started immediately. One night I ran away, and people I knew helped me get to my parents’ village.” Identifying trusted networks in moments of crisis reflected another form of agency: recognizing where help might be found and reaching out.
Finally, many participants emphasized self-development as a skill in its own right. Displacement, though disruptive, was also described as a context where they learned to self-advocate and voice their opinions. One girl reflected, “A good thing that happened to me here is that I changed. In Syria, a girl couldn’t give her opinion. I worked in a salon here and I became stronger. I worked and learned a lot of things here and I became stronger.” Others noted how they learned to negotiate with their parents for greater mobility or to develop interpersonal skills that helped them form friendships in unfamiliar environments.
3.3.4. Decision-Making
Decision-making and intention-setting was another critical aspect of agency. Girls described choices related to education, employment, marriage/divorce, safety, migration, and finances, framing them as deliberate strategies within the constraints of displacement.
Education was a central site of decision-making. Some chose to stop school because of harassment or repeated failures; others paused work in order to continue their education. One girl explained, “I left school because the teachers were mistreating me, and I didn’t see the point of staying. It was my choice to stop.” Another decided differently: “I stopped working so I could go back to my classes. Even if I don’t finish fast, I want to keep studying.”
In the sphere of work and career, participants made decisions to either work, stop working, or remain at home. One adolescent explained, “I chose to work in the field instead of going to school, because at least this way I can help my family.” Another framed staying home as a protective decision: “I prefer to stay home and not work, because at home I feel safe.” Even when these decisions aligned with restrictive norms, they reflected intentional judgments about safety, livelihood, and dignity.
Marriage and divorce were domains where decision-making was particularly complex. Some girls reported accepting marriage proposals as their own choice, often to address experiences of harassment or dissatisfaction with school. One adolescent explained, “When I was 14 years old, I chose to get married. I hated school, and I accepted to get married to the first man who proposed to marry me. I was relieved after I got married. I was relieved from men’s harassment. I preferred to get married. Now, I am very comfortable.” Others described rejecting proposals, breaking off engagements, or ending abusive marriages. As one girl recounted, “I told my family I would not marry him. I didn’t agree, and they respected my choice.” Another shared, “I left my husband because he was hitting me, and I decided I would raise my children alone.”
Decision-making also emerged in relation to discrimination and safety. Girls described weighing how to respond to harassment, gossip, or gender-based violence, sometimes choosing silence to avoid escalation, while other times confronting harassers. One adolescent explained, “I didn’t tell my parents when the men harassed me, because I didn’t want to upset them and make things worse.” Another shared the opposite approach: “When he insulted me, I yelled back and told him to stop.” Others described choosing to stay at home as a strategy: “I don’t leave the house now because the area is unsafe. I’d rather stay inside than risk it.”
Migration decisions also reflected careful deliberation. Some families chose to move to Lebanon for safety, while others attempted return trips to Syria for accreditation or healthcare. One adolescent explained, “We decided to go back to Syria for my school papers, even though it was dangerous. Without them, I couldn’t continue here.” Another described choosing to remain in Lebanon despite discomfort: “I thought about leaving Lebanon to find work elsewhere, but my family needed me here.”
Finally, girls described financial decisions, including borrowing money, selling belongings, or deciding to work to support their families. One explained, “We sold our furniture to pay the rent. It was a hard decision, but it was better than being on the street.” Another reflected, “I decided to start working in the shop so I could buy books for my siblings.”
3.3.5. Future Planning and Desires
Plans and desires for the future allowed Syrian adolescent girls to exercise agency by granting themselves permission to dream. These aspirations reflected both personal ambitions and collective responsibilities, and they provided a sense of purpose.
A central theme was education and career goals. Education was frequently referred to as a “weapon for the future,” and many girls expressed determination to finish school despite the barriers they faced. One adolescent explained, “I hope that an opportunity will come where I can properly study because I love education and I want to become someone important in society.” Others articulated specific career paths such as medicine, pharmacy, architecture, fashion design, and teaching. One girl shared, “I dream of becoming a doctor so I can help people, even if I know it will be difficult here.” Another said, “I want to finish school and teach, so that other children don’t lose their education the way I did.”
Beyond education, many participants expressed aspirations for financial independence and stability. Some dreamed of escaping poverty through work, while others imagined starting small businesses. One adolescent explained, “One day I want to open my own shop, so I don’t have to depend on anyone.” These desires underscored how financial autonomy was viewed as key to reclaiming dignity and agency.
Several participants also spoke of travel and mobility as central to their hopes. Dreams included both returning to Syria and leaving Lebanon for better opportunities. One girl said, “I want to travel and see other places where I can study and live in peace.” Another noted, “I wish to go back to Syria when it is safe, to rebuild our home.”
Finally, some girls described giving back as an important part of their imagined futures. This often took the form of volunteering or helping other Syrians who were displaced. One adolescent reflected, “In the future I want to help other refugee children, because I know what they are going through.” These aspirations highlighted that even in dreaming, girls looked beyond themselves to the well-being of their communities.
3.3.6. Active Reflection
Reflection, both retrospective and evaluative, was another means of expressing agency and it allowed girls to interpret their own involvement in events, weigh priorities, and consider how past experiences might shape future choices. For example, in the realm of education, girls often recounted reasons for their school performance and reflected on the role of education for their future. One adolescent admitted, “I didn’t focus on my studies before; I cared more about being with my friends. Now I see how important school is, and I regret it.” Others connected their reflections to future opportunities, noting how specialized training centers and language courses could improve job prospects. Reflection also emerged in relation to work. One girl evaluated her job experiences by distinguishing what she valued and what she resisted: “I liked earning my own money, but I hated when my boss threatened me. I started to understand how he tried to control us.” These narratives reveal how girls analyzed the power dynamics at play in their work environments and drew lessons from them.
Other reflections took the form of self-accountability. A few participants described taking responsibility for decisions, even when external circumstances shaped the outcomes. One explained, “I wouldn’t resort to stealing or anything illegal, even if we needed the money. I have to find another way.” Another, reflecting on harassment she experienced, said, “I agreed to play with the boys, and that’s why it happened.” While her account misplaces blame on herself, it highlights how reflection involved grappling with deeply internalized social norms.
Within early marriage and intimate partner violence (IPV), reflection provided a space for girls to analyze difficult relationships. One described why she remained in an abusive marriage: “I stayed with him because of my children. I didn’t want them to suffer, so I tolerated it.” Another reflected on early warning signs in her current relationship, noting, “We can’t communicate, and he is much older than me. I can see this could become a problem.” These accounts underscore how reflection gave girls tools to interpret relational dynamics and assess their consequences.
Finally, reflection emerged in narratives about migration. Some participants wondered how life might have unfolded if they had remained in Syria, while others acknowledged how displacement was framed by initial assumptions that the crisis would be temporary. One explained, “We thought we would come here for a short time and then go back, but now so many years have passed.” Another observed, “If we had stayed in Syria, maybe I could have finished school. Here, everything is different.”
3.3.7. Action Execution
Despite structural constraints, taking action was one of the most visible ways Syrian adolescent girls expressed agency. For instance, with respect to education, girls enrolled in schools or informal courses, applied for scholarships, repeated grades, or chose to leave school altogether. One explained, “I enrolled again even though I had already repeated the year, because I wanted to keep trying.” Another chose differently: “I stopped going to class after the principal said girls and boys should not speak. I decided to continue working instead.” These actions, whether of persistence or withdrawal, were deliberate responses to circumstances they judged untenable or promising. In the realm of work and career, girls described finding jobs to support their families, leaving unsafe or exploitative positions, or seeking mobility through work. One shared, “When I arrived in Lebanon, I was obliged to work to support my family. I also applied to continue my education, but when I couldn’t keep up with both, I decided to leave school and keep working.” Another explained, “I liked my job and the people I worked with. Even if it wasn’t easy, it gave me independence.”
Marriage and divorce were also spaces of action. Girls recounted leaving abusive partners, asserting marital rights, and in some cases marrying against family wishes. One described, “I refused to get married at first because I didn’t know the man. Later, I was married because of our traditions and financial situation. He abused me, and I tolerated it for a while. Then I went back to my parents. I told them everything, and they stood by my side. I recorded the insults as evidence. Now I want to get a divorce so I can continue my education and work.” Another shared how she broke an engagement: “I was engaged very young, but after my father died and problems started with my fiancé, I decided to leave him and focus on my education.” These stories show how action within marriage was not limited to acceptance but also included resistance and reorientation.
When confronted with discrimination and violence, some participants stood up against harassment or found ways to protect themselves. One recounted, “When he insulted me, I yelled back and told him to stop.” Another sought protection through concealment: “I hid and waited until he left because I didn’t want things to get worse.” Others acted by questioning authority in school when treated unfairly: “I went to the teacher and asked why I failed when I had studied. I wanted to know the reason.”
Actions in relation to migration reflected both family decisions and personal choices. Some girls migrated to Lebanon with their families, while others described journeys back to Syria to retrieve school documents or access healthcare. One explained, “We went back to Syria for my papers so I could continue my studies. It was dangerous, but I had no other choice.” Others chose to remain in Lebanon despite the hardships, weighing safety against opportunity.
In the sphere of finances, girls acted to sustain themselves and their families by borrowing money, selling belongings, finding sponsors, or taking up informal jobs. One shared, “We sold our furniture to pay the rent. It was difficult, but better than having nowhere to stay.” Another explained, “I prayed for God to help us, but I also went looking for work with my husband. Together we found a way to pay for food.” Prayer, described by several participants, was itself framed as an active means of seeking intervention and support, particularly in relation to financial hardship.
In many cases, girls described what could be termed deliberate schemes or actions that involved maneuvering around multiple barriers, trying different strategies, and persisting despite obstacles. These included taking on several jobs to fund education, returning to Syria for documents, starting small businesses, gathering evidence to secure divorce, or alternating between work and school. One adolescent described this process succinctly: “I tried one way, and when it didn’t work, I tried another. You can’t just stop; you have to keep finding a way.”