The Development of Children’s Request Strategies in L1 Greek
Abstract
1. Introduction
2. Empirical and Theoretical Background of the Study
2.1. The Development of Directive Repertoire in Children
2.2. Conceptual Framework: Illocutionary Constructions
- How does the development of requestive behaviour manifest in terms of the range and types of request constructions used by preschool- and school-aged children across different communicative situations?
- How are children’s request constructions related to their sociocognitive development, specifically their ability to take into account the social parameters of an interaction when making requests?
3. Methods
3.1. Participants
3.2. Instrument and Procedure
3.3. Coding Scheme
3.4. Statistical Analysis
4. Results
4.1. Linguistic Resources Used in Request-Making
- (a)
- λίγο (“a little/bit”), used as a hedge (Canakis, 2015), e.g., Μπορείς να μου δώσεις λίγο το ποδήλατό σου; (“Can you give me your bike for a bit?”; Bike scenario);
- (b)
- diminutives, such as σκυλάκι (“doggie”) in the utterance Μπορείς να μου δώσεις λίγο το σκυλάκι σου να παίξω; (“Can you give me your doggie to play with for a bit?” or “Can you let me play with your doggie for a bit?”; Dog scenario);
- (c)
- V-forms (“politeness plural”), a classic politeness strategy in Greek (as well as in many other languages) that elevates both the formality and social consideration of the request, as in the utterance … μπορείτε να μας φέρετε την μπάλα; (“… can you-PLURAL bring-PLURAL us the ball?”; Ball scenario).
4.2. Indices of Children’s Increasingly Consolidated Sensitivity to Social Factors
5. Discussion
5.1. Key Findings and Theoretical Contributions
5.2. Practical Implications
5.3. Limitations and Future Directions
6. Conclusions
Author Contributions
Funding
Institutional Review Board Statement
Informed Consent Statement
Data Availability Statement
Acknowledgments
Conflicts of Interest
Appendix A
| High Cost | ||
| Familiarity + | Familiarity − | |
| Power + | Your dad has just come back from work and he is very tired. You want him to drive you to a friend’s home who invited you to play together. What do you say exactly to your dad? (Father Tired scenario) | You play football with your friends in a playground. The ball goes out of the fence, rolling fast down the street. At that moment a lady passes by. You ask her to go and get the ball. What do you say exactly? (Ball scenario) |
| Power − | Your friend has an amazing puzzle. His godmother bought it for him from America and he is very excited. You don’t have any puzzles and ask him to give it to you as a gift. What do you say exactly? (Puzzle scenario) | In the square, you come across a kid riding his/her new bike. This kid is not someone you know. You left your bike at home. You ask that kid to let you ride the bike for a while. What do you say exactly? (Bike scenario) |
| Low Cost | ||
| Familiarity + | Familiarity − | |
| Power + | Your grandmother and you go for a walk and pass by a kiosk. You are thirsty and ask her to buy you some juice. What do you say exactly? (Juice scenario)– | As you play in the square, you see a lady walking her dog. You want to play with the dog for a while, because you like animals very much. What do you say exactly to the lady? (Dog scenario) |
| Power − | Your friend at school has a big pack of cookies and eats some during playtime. You ask for a cookie. What do you say exactly? (Cookie Familiar scenario) | During playtime at school a kid who is not a classmate and a friend of yours (you don’t know his/her name) eats your favourite cookies. He/She has an almost full pack and you ask for a cookie. What do you say exactly to that kid? (Cookie Unfamiliar scenario) |
Appendix B
| Category | Codes | Example 1 | Example 2 |
|---|---|---|---|
| Μου δίνεις, σε παρακαλώ πολύ, ένα μπισκότο; (lit.: “Are You Giving Me, Please, a Cookie?”/”Could You Please Give Me a Cookie?”) | Θα μπορούσες να μου δανείσεις το ποδήλατό σου και εγώ θα σου το επιστρέψω; (“Could You Lend Me Your Bike, and I’ll Give It Back to You?”) | ||
| Sentence Type/Μood | Imperative | 0 | 0 |
| Interrogative | 1 | 1 | |
| Subjunctive | 0 | 0 | |
| Tense | Present | 1 | 0 |
| Future | 0 | 0 | |
| Past (+ θα) (=would) | 0 | 1 | |
| (Modal) | Want (θέλω) | 0 | 0 |
| Can/May (μπορώ) | 0 | 1 | |
| Main Verb Inflectional Marking | Person (1st vs. 2nd) | 0 | 0 |
| Number (Singular vs. Plural) | 1 | 1 | |
| Optional Elements | Please (παρακαλώ) | 1 | 0 |
| A bit (λίγο) | 0 | 0 | |
| Diminutives | 0 | 0 | |
| Summons | 0 | 0 | |
| Supportive Moves | 0 | 1 |
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| 4-Year-Olds | 6-Year-Olds | 8-Year-Olds | 11-Year-Olds | |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Age Range (yrs;mos) | 3;8–5;0 | 6;1–7;1 | 8;2–9;2 | 11;1–12;5 |
| Mean Age (yrs;mos) | 4;5 | 6;6 | 8;7 | 11;6 |
| Total N | 18 | 18 | 17 | 20 |
| Base Construction | Frequency (N of Tokens) | Example |
|---|---|---|
| (i) Can-you V-SUBJUNCTIVE? | 33.3% (193) | Μπορείς να μου δώσεις ένα μπισκότο; (“Can you give me a cookie?”) |
| (ii) Will-you V? | 16.9% (98) | Θα μου δώσεις ένα μπισκότο; (“Will you give me a cookie?”) |
| (iii) Can-I V-SUBJUNCTIVE? | 12.9% (75) | Μπορώ να πάρω ένα μπισκότο; (“Can I take a cookie?”) |
| (iv) V-PRESENT-YOU? | 11.9% (69) | Μου δίνεις ένα μπισκότο; (“Are you giving me a cookie?”) [lit. transl.] |
| Age (yrs) | παρακαλώ (“Please”) | λίγο (“a Little”) | Diminutives | Plural | Supportive Moves |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | + | − | − | − | − |
| 6 | + | + | + | + | + |
| 8 | + | + | + | + | + |
| 11 | + | + | + | + | + |
| Age (yrs) | παρακαλώ (“Please”) | λίγο (“a Little”) | Diminutives | Plural | Supportive Moves |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | + | + | + | − | + |
| 6 | + | + | + | − | + |
| 8 | + | + | + | + | + |
| 11 | + | + | − | + | + |
| Age (yrs) | παρακαλώ (“Please”) | λίγο (“a Little”) | Diminutives | Plural | Supportive Moves |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | + | + | + | − | + |
| 6 | + | + | + | + | + |
| 8 | − | + | + | + | + |
| 11 | + | + | + | − | + |
| Age (yrs) | παρακαλώ (“Please”) | λίγο (“a Little”) | Diminutives | Plural | Supportive Moves |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | + | + | − | − | + |
| 6 | + | + | + | − | + |
| 8 | + | + | + | + | + |
| 11 | + | + | − | + | + |
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