1. Introduction
Although general burnout has been the subject of much systematic investigation in recent decades, a growing body of the literature highlights the significance of exploring various forms of burnout within specific life domains. One type of burnout that has received increasing attention in intimate relationships is couple burnout (also used interchangeably in the literature with relationship burnout or marital burnout) due to a number of factors, including the increasing number of dual-earner couples, the increasing demands of work and family life, and the changing nature of intimate relationships [
1,
2,
3,
4]. Couple burnout refers to a state of physical, emotional, and cognitive exhaustion that arises from the discrepancy between the expectations and realities of a relationship [
3]. Research indicates that couple burnout is a complex response to common challenges and chronic stressors faced by couples in romantic relationships, such as financial strain, work–life balance issues, and childcare responsibilities [
2,
3,
4,
5]. Couple burnout is also a cumulative process and, as it progresses, can manifest itself with complex physical, cognitive, and emotional symptoms such as chronic fatigue, negative feelings about the relationship and its future, hopelessness, disappointment, feelings of detachment, resentment, and decreased intimacy [
3,
6,
7].
Although research on couple burnout is still in its early stages, existing studies in clinical and non-clinical samples suggest that higher levels of couple burnout are associated with several outcomes that can negatively affect individuals’ quality of life, mental health, and marital life, such as lower marital satisfaction, lower levels of trust between couples, perceptions of lower spousal support, difficulty meeting basic psychological needs, lower levels of resilience, higher levels of perceived stress and anxiety, higher levels of conflict and criticism in family communication, and higher divorce proneness [
2,
5,
8,
9,
10,
11,
12,
13]. In addition to harmful effects on the mental health of couples, research also suggests that couple burnout negatively affects the healthy development of children [
14]. According to Pines [
3], couple burnout can eventually lead to psychological problems, emotional divorce, and legal divorce by reducing feelings of intimacy, love, and compassion between couples. Considering the association of couple burnout with negative outcomes in marital life and mental health, identifying the associated factors can provide useful information for mental health professionals to identify individuals at risk of couple burnout, develop protective and preventive mental health services for individuals with couple burnout, and develop effective marriage and family counseling interventions.
Although there are different types of intimate relationships, such as engaged, dating, or cohabiting couples, marriage is one of the most common types of intimate relationships and requires the fulfillment of a set of family development tasks that may increase the level of couple burnout, such as creating a satisfactory marital environment, adapting to the pregnancy process, having children, meeting the needs of children during the education period, establishing relationships with each other’s relatives, and adapting to retirement [
15]. In addition to these family development tasks, marriage is a complex relationship that involves high levels of intimacy, commitment, and interdependence among couples [
16]. This can make couples more vulnerable to stress and burnout, especially if they are unable to meet each other’s needs or effectively manage their expectations [
3]. Therefore, marriage is an important type of relationship in which factors associated with couple burnout need to be investigated.
Theoretical explanations and previous studies on couple burnout suggest that couple burnout may result from a complex combination of several demographic, familial, social, and cultural factors [
4,
5,
7,
9,
10,
13]. One factor that may help protect couples from couple burnout is relationship self-efficacy, defined as the belief in one’s ability to form and sustain romantic relationships [
17]. Individuals with high relationship self-efficacy are more likely to engage more actively in their relationships, exhibit greater resilience in the face of challenges, exert increased effort to overcome obstacles, and sustain their relationships [
17,
18]. Therefore, relationship self-efficacy can be considered an important variable that can reduce couple burnout among married individuals. Although there is a growing body of research on the relationship between general self-efficacy and burnout, there is a paucity of research on the relationship between relationship self-efficacy and couple burnout [
12]. Furthermore, because the study conducted by Moravejjifar et al. [
12] only examined pregnant mothers, the generalizability of their findings to married men and non-pregnant married women is low. Therefore, more research is needed to examine the relationship between relationship self-efficacy and couple burnout among married individuals.
Another factor that may help couples to successfully maintain their marriage and protect them from couple burnout may be self-compassion. Self-compassion refers to perceiving one’s personal experiences as common human experiences, viewing difficulties, failures, pain, and inadequacies as part of being human, and accepting that one and all others are worthy of being treated with compassion [
19]. Individuals may experience negative emotions such as pain, anger, sadness, self-pity, and burnout throughout the family life cycle. Coping with such situations and persevering through problems can be challenging for couples. Individuals with higher levels of self-compassion may have more compassionate attitudes toward themselves when faced with such negative situations [
19]. To the best of our knowledge, no study has yet examined the relationship between self-compassion and couple burnout among married individuals; however, studies focusing on the benefits of self-compassion in romantic relationships indicate that self-compassion may be negatively related to couple burnout. Neff and Beretvas [
20] found that highly self-compassionate individuals in romantic relationships also had high relationship subjective well-being, which consisted of a sense of self-worth, positive affectivity, the ability to express one’s emotions, and authenticity. In addition, Jacobson et al. [
21] found that highly self-compassionate individuals in romantic relationships had higher levels of couple adjustment and relationship satisfaction. In a comprehensive literature review, Latren et al. [
22] also concluded that self-compassion may help individuals build stronger and more supportive relationships by increasing their willingness to communicate openly and honestly about their needs and feelings in close interpersonal relationships. Self-compassion may also help couples cope with stress more effectively by helping them maintain a positive outlook on their relationship, even during difficult times [
20]. Based on these findings, higher levels of self-compassion may be a relational factor that helps prevent and reduce couple burnout in married individuals.
Couple burnout is a multifaceted phenomenon influenced by various factors. While individual traits like self-efficacy and self-compassion have been explored in relation to couple burnout, it is equally important to examine the role of sociodemographic variables. These factors, encompassing gender, education level, duration of marriage, type of marriage, number of children, and monthly income, may contribute to or mitigate the risk of burnout among married individuals. Additionally, subjective well-being measures like happiness could potentially be associated with the experience of couple burnout. Moreover, previous research has yielded mixed findings regarding the influence of these sociodemographic factors, highlighting the need for further investigation to better understand their correlations with couple burnout [
2,
4,
5,
7,
9,
10,
11]. Previous studies have revealed that couple burnout differs between women and men; women are more likely to experience couple burnout than men [
4,
6,
9,
13]. On the other hand, studies examining the relationship between other sociodemographic factors such as education level, duration of marriage, type of marriage, and number of children and couple burnout have reported inconsistent findings [
2,
9,
10,
12,
13]. Although some studies have found no significant relationship between education level and couple burnout in married individuals [
2,
7,
9], other studies have reported that education level is negatively associated with couple burnout [
13]. Nejatian et al. [
2] found that women who entered into a forced marriage were more likely to experience couple burnout than women who did not enter into a forced marriage. Pamuk and Durmuş [
13] also revealed that couple burnout was higher in parent-arranged marriages than in acquainted marriages. While some studies found no significant relationship between the number of children and couple burnout in married individuals [
2,
9,
11], other studies revealed that the number of children was positively associated with couple burnout [
10,
13]. Although Nejatian et al. [
2] reported that the duration of marriage was positively correlated with couple burnout, other studies found no significant relationship between the duration of marriage and couple burnout [
9,
11].
Another demographic variable examined in this study is monthly income. Although some studies found no significant relationship between perceived income and couple burnout in married individuals [
7], other studies reported that individuals with high income were less likely to experience couple burnout than individuals with low income [
5]. Lastly, we investigate the potential relationship between happiness and couple burnout, an association that has not been directly explored in previous research to the best of our knowledge. Happiness and couple burnout may share a bidirectional relationship, where lower levels of happiness could contribute to higher couple burnout, and conversely, couple burnout could diminish an individual’s overall sense of happiness and well-being. Happiness is a subjective state of well-being that encompasses positive emotions, life satisfaction, and a sense of meaning and purpose [
23,
24]. It is a crucial aspect of mental health and overall quality of life [
23,
24,
25,
26]. When individuals experience high levels of happiness, they may be better equipped to handle the challenges and stressors that can arise in a marital relationship, potentially reducing the risk of couple burnout. Conversely, a lack of happiness and a predominance of negative emotions could exacerbate the emotional exhaustion and strain associated with couple burnout. According to Pines [
3], couple burnout can lead to psychological problems and relationship dissatisfaction. It may also increase negative emotions such as anger, sadness, and resentment over time [
3,
6,
7]. Therefore, it is plausible that individuals with lower levels of happiness may be more susceptible to experiencing higher levels of couple burnout, highlighting the importance of examining this potential association.
Because most previous studies on correlates of couple burnout were conducted in Iran and Western countries [
2,
7,
8,
11,
12], it is crucial to evaluate the validity and generalizability of prior research findings in different cultural contexts, including Turkish society. Turkish culture encompasses unique norms, values, and relationship dynamics that may impact the experience of couple burnout among married individuals. Specifically, Turkish culture places great importance on marriage and family [
27]. This can put pressure on couples to remain together even when facing difficulties, increasing their risk of experiencing couple burnout. Additionally, traditional gender roles persist in Turkish society, with men expected to be the breadwinners and women responsible for childcare, household chores, and caring for elderly relatives [
28,
29]. The rigid gender roles prevalent in Turkish culture can result in an uneven distribution of responsibilities, relationship imbalances, and stress. Additionally, there is a significant emphasis on family ties and extended family relationships within Turkish culture, as highlighted by Ataca [
28]. Children are expected to maintain close ties with their parents and extended family throughout their lives. This can result in increased responsibilities, obligations, and conflicts, which may contribute to higher levels of couple burnout among married individuals in Türkiye. Additionally, Türkiye has a relatively high unemployment rate and those employed often work long hours and experience elevated levels of stress [
30]. Furthermore, Türkiye has encountered economic hardships (e.g., high inflation) in recent years, leading to financial stress and anxiety among couples. These economic challenges may contribute to overwhelming feelings and stress among married Turkish couples, potentially leading to an increased risk of couple burnout. Thus, the aim of this study is to investigate the predictive power of sociodemographic factors, relationship self-efficacy, happiness, and self-compassion on couple burnout among Turkish married individuals.
4. Discussion
This study investigated the association between couple burnout and sociodemographic factors and the levels of relationship self-efficacy, self-compassion, and happiness among married individuals. The findings indicated a significant gender difference, with women exhibiting significantly higher levels of couple burnout than men. This finding supports the results of previous studies indicating a positive association between being a woman and couple burnout [
4,
6,
9,
13]. For example, Pines et al. [
4] found that women have higher levels of couple burnout than men among Israeli working, sandwiched-generation couples. Similarly, Çapri [
6] found that women were more likely to experience couple burnout than men among married working couples. Cultural differences in gender roles influence the perspectives of both women and men regarding marriage as well as their expectations of marriage and the roles and responsibilities associated with it. In Turkish culture, married women are generally expected to undertake household chores such as cooking, laundry, sewing, daily/weekly house cleaning, childcare, and dishwashing [
29]. In addition, in Turkish culture, married women are expected to fulfill the demands of being a wife, including providing emotional support and companionship to their husbands, helping husbands manage family finances, and respecting and taking care of elderly family members. They are also expected to cope with job-related stress if employed. Thus, Turkish married women may experience higher levels of couple burnout than Turkish married men because of the significant responsibilities placed on them in Turkish family life.
The number of children was found to be positively associated with couple burnout in the married individuals in this study. This finding was consistent with the results of previous studies that demonstrated a positive association between the number of children and couple burnout in married individuals [
2,
10,
13,
42]. For example, Çapri and Gökçakan [
42] found that the number of children was a significant positive predictor of couple burnout among married men. Similarly, Nejatian et al. [
2] also found that the number of children was positively correlated with physical symptoms of couple burnout among married women. Married couples become parents after having children. Parenting is a lifelong and demanding responsibility that involves fulfilling various duties and responsibilities. As parents, individuals not only take care of their children’s day-to-day needs but also strive to create the necessary conditions and provide resources to ensure their children’s healthy development [
15]. Therefore, caring for and raising children can be a stressful experience for couples. On the other hand, while transitioning to parenthood can be a rewarding experience and bring feelings of love, joy, and fulfillment for couples, research suggests that it can also be a major life challenge with a substantial impact on various aspects of a person’s life, such as relationships, work, finances, and physical and mental health [
15,
43]. Married individuals may encounter challenges in balancing their responsibilities and fulfilling their roles as spouses while simultaneously addressing the demands of childcare and meeting the needs of their child following the transition into parenthood [
43]. As the number of children increases, parents can often find themselves investing more effort in supporting their children’s developmental processes and can experience increased stress related to childcare. Increased caregiving responsibilities can lead to difficulty in meeting the demands of the spouse and parent roles, which may be associated with higher levels of couple burnout.
The findings revealed that relationship self-efficacy is negatively associated with couple burnout, such that married individuals with higher confidence in their ability to manage and maintain a satisfying relationship tend to have lower couple burnout. The results of this study are consistent with those of a previous study among pregnant women indicating that relationship self-efficacy is negatively related to couple burnout [
12]. This study also extends these findings to the broader population of married individuals and suggests that relationship self-efficacy may be an important protective factor against couple burnout regardless of gender. According to relationship self-efficacy theory, individuals with high relationship self-efficacy are better able to handle conflicts successfully, reach a consensus on their differences with their partners, and express their expectations regarding their rights within the relationship [
17,
18]. Furthermore, these individuals are more likely to exert more effort in overcoming the challenges they encounter within their relationships to maintain a satisfying relationship [
18]. High relationship self-efficacy can therefore prevent couple burnout by helping married individuals to engage in relationship-enhancing and strengthening behaviors which, in turn, can lead to having a happier and more satisfying relationship.
Self-compassion was found to be negatively associated with couple burnout among the married individuals in this study. These findings are consistent with studies that have examined the relationship between self-compassion and general burnout levels. For example, Abdollahi et al. [
44] found that low self-compassion was a significant predictor of higher levels of burnout among health care professionals. Previous studies have shown that individuals with high self-compassion tend to experience fewer psychological problems, including depression, anxiety, and stress; experience higher levels of positive emotions; demonstrate effective coping and emotion regulation skills; and have better overall physical, psychological, and cognitive health (for a review, see Neff [
19]). Studies examining the benefits of high self-compassion in close interpersonal relationships have also found that individuals with high self-compassion have a better understanding of their romantic partners, use constructive conflict resolution strategies, and engage in relationship-protective behaviors [
20,
22]. Accordingly, high self-compassion may protect individuals from couple burnout by helping them engage in healthier and more positive behaviors toward their partners and to be more attentive to the needs of their relationship.
The findings of the current study revealed a negative association between happiness and couple burnout such that happy married individuals tended to experience lower couple burnout. Moreover, the relative importance analyses revealed that happiness was the strongest predictor of couple burnout, underscoring its crucial role in preventing relationship burnout. These findings are consistent with theoretical expectations [
3] as well as findings indicating a negative association between happiness and burnout levels [
45,
46]. According to Pines [
3], the primary objective of individuals in a marriage is to achieve personal and mutual happiness. Pines also posits that when individuals’ expectations about their spouse and marriage are fulfilled, they tend to experience greater happiness and lower couple burnout. On the other hand, previous research has shown that happy individuals are generally healthier, have stronger and more satisfying relationships, and are more successful in different areas of life than unhappy individuals. For example, happy people tend to have more friends, show fewer signs of mental illness, possess better emotional regulation skills, experience higher life satisfaction, cope with stress more effectively, and experience more positive emotions and fewer negative emotions [
23,
24]. Therefore, having a higher level of personal happiness can facilitate more effective coping with marital burnout symptoms by promoting the development of mental, psychological, social, and physical resources [
23]. Recent research has also shown that happy individuals tend to have higher levels of interpersonal understanding and empathy, spend more quality time with their partners, resolve conflicts more constructively, and have stronger intimacy, sincerity, forgiveness, commitment, and trust in their relationships [
16,
47]. Thus, happiness may protect married individuals against couple burnout by increasing the frequency of positive emotions (e.g., joy, cheerfulness, and satisfaction) and decreasing the frequency of negative emotions (e.g., anger, cynicism, and anxiety).
Finally, the results showed that the type of marriage, monthly income, education level, and duration of marriage were not significant predictors of couple burnout in married individuals. These findings are consistent with those of some previous studies [
2,
9,
12] but different from others [
2,
13]. For example, Candemir Karaburç and Tunç [
9], Moravejjifar et al. [
12], and Nejatian et al. [
2] found that the educational level of married individuals was not associated with couple burnout. However, some previous studies have identified an association between couple burnout and factors such as low monthly income [
5], duration of marriage [
2,
12], or type of marriage [
13]. It is crucial to acknowledge the significant differences between the cited studies and the current study. For example, Nejatian et al. [
2] only focused on married women, and the majority of the independent variables used in their regression model were different from those used in the current study. Moreover, other studies analyzed the independent effects of monthly income, education level, or type of marriage variables and did not examine their effects on the presence of other psychological characteristics of individuals [
5,
9,
13]. Overall, variables such as type of marriage, monthly income, education level, and the duration of marriage may have limited impact on levels of couple burnout, especially when considered with married individuals’ relationship self-efficacy, self-compassion, and happiness levels as well as their gender and the number of children.
4.1. Limitations
There are several limitations to consider when interpreting the findings of this study. First, the data for this study were collected from a specific sample of married individuals living in a selected city in the central Black Sea Region of Türkiye. Therefore, the generalizability of the findings to married individuals living in other regions of Türkiye is low. Couple burnout can also occur in different types of relationships; however, only married couples were included in this study. Because couples in different relationship statuses may have different characteristics and dynamics that can affect their experience of couple burnout, the findings cannot be generalized to engaged, dating, or cohabiting couples. Future studies should include couples with different relationship statuses.
A significant limitation of this study is the reliance on self-report scales for data collection. While commonly employed in couple burnout research, self-report measures are susceptible to various biases, including social desirability, mid-point responding, and misconceptions. This is particularly pertinent given the sensitive nature of topics such as relationship self-efficacy and couple burnout. Participants may tend to provide responses they believe are more socially acceptable rather than those that accurately reflect their experiences. Although we utilized reliable measurement tools and allowed the respondents to provide responses anonymously, future studies could benefit from employing multiple methods to overcome these limitations and enhance the validity of the findings. Potential approaches include incorporating physiological measures, conducting interviews, making observations, and using indirect questioning techniques. Additionally, the inclusion of social desirability scales could help identify and mitigate response biases. By diversifying data collection methods, researchers can provide a more comprehensive and accurate representation of couple burnout and related factors in the studied population. Furthermore, a single-item happiness scale was used to measure the happiness levels of the participants. Although the results obtained from previous studies and the current study on the happiness scale provided data that are consistent with the theoretical expectations regarding the convergent and discriminant validity of the scale, only a limited amount of data is available on the reliability of this scale. Therefore, future studies should use multi-item happiness scales to further assess the validity of the findings. Finally, because of the use of a cross-sectional research design, a cause-and-effect relationship cannot be established for the findings. Our study focused primarily on sociodemographic factors, happiness, relationship self-efficacy, and self-compassion. To gain a more comprehensive understanding of couple burnout, future research should consider including control variables such as personality traits (e.g., big-five personality traits), mental health history, caregiving responsibilities, and work–life balance challenges. While our quantitative methodology provided statistically significant findings, it may not fully delineate the complex dynamics underlying couple burnout. To address this limitation, future studies should integrate qualitative methodologies, such as interviews or focus groups, to better elucidate the mechanisms and motivations contributing to couple burnout. This mixed-methods approach can provide a more comprehensive understanding of the phenomenon in the Turkish cultural context.
Another limitation of this study is the generalizability of our findings, particularly in light of potential cultural differences. While our objective was to investigate couple burnout within a Turkish context, we primarily relied on assessment tools originally developed in Western cultures. Although these measures have been validated for use in Turkish samples, it is important to acknowledge that cultural variations, both between countries and within Türkiye, may influence the understanding, perception, and reporting of the constructs under study. The concepts of couple burnout, relationship self-efficacy, and self-compassion may carry subtly different connotations or manifest differently in Turkish culture compared to the Western contexts where these measures were originally developed. Despite the rigorous adaptation and validation processes these instruments have undergone, there remains a possibility that some nuances specific to Turkish marital relationships might not be fully captured. Furthermore, regional differences within Türkiye itself could impact how participants interpret and respond to the scale items. While Samsun is a metropolitan city, it may not fully represent the diversity of marital experiences across all regions of Türkiye. Thus, the findings from this study should be interpreted with caution when generalizing to the broader Turkish population.
4.2. Practical Implications
Despite its limitations, the findings of this study provide valuable insights into couple burnout that can be used by mental health professionals and researchers to identify married individuals with couple burnout and develop effective interventions for prevention and treatment. First, our research findings suggest that certain groups such as women, those with a high number of children, and individuals with lower levels of relationship self-efficacy, self-compassion, and happiness may be more vulnerable to couple burnout. Mental health professionals and researchers can use this information to develop screening tools to identify married individuals who are at risk of experiencing high couple burnout. Moreover, training programs to prevent couple burnout could incorporate activities that increase relationship self-efficacy, self-compassion, and happiness levels. These activities can help individuals to develop the skills and resources they need to cope more effectively with the symptoms of couple burnout and the challenges of marriage.
Depending on the needs of married individuals with couple burnout, marriage and family therapists can also carry out activities to increase the relationship self-efficacy, self-compassion, and happiness levels of their clients during individual and group counseling sessions. For example, marriage and family therapists can help clients cope more effectively with couple burnout by providing guidance on developing social and communication skills, asking clients to engage in mindfulness-based practices such as journaling, writing letters to oneself, and cultivating a positive inner voice, and teaching clients positive thinking skills and giving them homework assignments that involve spending time with close friends and engaging in active practices (e.g., walking, physical training, dancing).