“Because of the Christian Fellowship, I Decided to Stay”: How Participating in a Christian Community Shapes the Social Experiences of Chinese International Students
Abstract
:1. Introduction
2. Literature Review
3. Theoretical Framework
4. Methodology
4.1. Settings
4.2. Empirical Approach
4.3. Data Collection
4.4. Data Analysis
4.5. Limitations
5. The Church as a Social Support Community
5.1. A Welcoming and Caring Community
Although the university officially welcomes new international students in annual orientations, these sessions often focus on codes of conducts and academic requirements, rather than interpersonal support. The church and its fellowship take a step further by welcoming international students individually and helping them get settled when they arrive. This approach makes these students feel more welcomed, safe, and supported. More importantly, the welcoming name of the Christian church and fellowship makes students feel secure. Like Linshu said, “I knew I was home.” Even though she had just met Jiahe for the first time, she trusted him and felt a sense of belonging.“I still remember my feeling after arriving at [the local] airport, I felt lost and unfamiliar. Everything was new to me. I thought that no one would pick me up at the airport. I didn’t know how to take a bus or a taxi to my dorm. Suddenly, I saw Jiahe, … Our student leader, Jiahe. He stood right beside the exit door and held a flag that read: “Chinese Home Church welcomes new students.” I still remember my feeling at that moment. I knew that I was home. I didn’t feel lost anymore. I had a sense of belonging here.”(Interview, 16 November 2016, in Chinese)
The church community is just as important if not more important than family is a common theme that we found across our interviews. For Chinese undergraduate students, most of whom grew up in the Chinese one-child policy era, this is their first time living away from their parents. They soon realize that their parents are no longer able to respond to their needs timely and effectively. Therefore, our participants often rely on the church community in times of difficulty. The church’s pastor and senior mentors, whose cumulative knowledge and experience in the ministry well equips them for this role, become parental figures to Chinese undergraduate students and offer them trustworthy judgments and advice.“I think now the church is more important than family. I don’t mean that family is not important. But my parents are too far away; they are unable to guide me effectively. Meanwhile, in our church community, the leaders are like my parents and they take good care of me. Brothers and sisters in the church community are all friendly and willing to help me. They could help me in time when I am in trouble. Like several weeks ago, I encountered a financial issue and it really bothered me. I did not tell my parents because they are too far away and even if they knew, they could not help me right away. Telling them not only wouldn’t solve the problem but also make them feel worried. So, I told my friends and the student leaders in the church; they gave me many suggestions to solve the problem. They’ve always supported me every time I was in trouble.”(Interview, 16 November 2016, in Chinese)
Given the regulated rules of Christian practices in Mainland China, many Chinese international students coming to the church/fellowship have little prior experience of and knowledge about Christianity. Yet, the Church did not only focus on introducing Christianity or on Church activities. For them, the first thing was to introduce newcomers and to welcome them with hugs. Such welcoming rituals may help newcomers feel less intimidated. They define the church as a community of hospitality, rather than as a place of rigid rituals and regulations.In the big group meeting, after singing contemporary worship songs, the band found chairs to sit down on. Then, a female student leader, Jiajia, took the microphone and started the general weekly report. She first asked if there were any newcomers at today’s meeting. A girl stood up and introduced herself and her major. Jiajia asked other students to say hello and welcomed the newcomer with hugs. Then, Jiajia asked everyone to say “It is nice to see you here today” to people sitting nearby. Everyone responded and hugged each other.(Field notes, 21 October 2016)
5.2. A Social, Emotional, and Mental Support Community
Echoing Xiangke, most participants expressed strong comfort and trust when interacting with other church/fellowship members. They considered this community to be a safe place that provides social and mental support during their lonely and insecure time abroad. For example, opening up about her experience with depression, Xiaoshu said:“Church friends are the primary sources for help. We usually turn to friends in church for help when facing problems… Church, especially the fellowship, is like a family, and people in church or fellowship are family members, you don’t need to feel intimidated to express yourself and your concerns. Friends in the church are different, I mean, you can tell them everything, since they tell you everything.”(Interview, 8 August 2017, in Chinese)
In Xiaoshu’s view, her loneliness and depression have been transformed into happiness after joining the Lighthouse Fellowship. She stressed multiple times in conversations with us that her participation in the fellowship has radically changed her mental wellbeing, mainly because she “met many good friends in the fellowship”.“If I had not made any contact with the fellowship at the beginning, I would have had nothing. With my personality, I don’t take the initiative to meet others. I think I would be alone for a long time. Like, becoming very depressed… I wasn’t able to make friends in high school [and during that time,] I felt very dark. [But] my mother said that after entering college, I would be happier. [Indeed,] I have really been cheered up a lot because I met many good friends in the fellowship.”(Interview, 22 February 2017, in Chinese)
The communal activities within the church/fellowship, therefore, are not arbitrary. Rather, they are carefully planned and grounded within Christian ethics of community.“In terms of emotional needs, we need friends, we need to have good friends, we need to be able to communicate, need to have our own companions to make decisions and do things together. It is very important to build a healthy environment here where we could provide the students what they need when they need us, based on Christian belief and practice.”(Interview, 12 April 2017, in Chinese)
While the university does provide professional counseling services, our participants often turned to the church and the fellowship for mental support. Being able to express themselves in their own language and cultural norms, they found it easier to share their thoughts and feelings with Chinese Christian community members than with American counselors. Many students also said that they often felt “relieved” and “relaxed” when they go to church. They credited the church community for providing a safe place where students can support each other mentally and emotionally. This ethnic Christian community, therefore, fills the gap in counseling services that the university has not yet successfully adapted to international Chinese students.“Last year, my roommate and I had many disputes… I felt helpless. I felt desperate. [Then,] it was Xiushan Sister [a Lighthouse Fellowship mentor]. She took me to pray, go to Bible study, and to help me reconcile the disputes. Afterwards, my mood and perspective were transformed; the situation became much better.”(Interview, 22 February 2017, in Chinese)
6. The Church as an Informal Learning Community
6.1. A Learning Community of Information Exchanges
In this particular observation, it was clear that although Mengmeng was new to this church community, she was immediately connected to other members by exchanging academic information. Also, by talking to Mengmeng, other student members expanded social connections and obtained knowledge beyond their own majors. More importantly, Yanyan was able to use this opportunity to receive helpful feedback about her assignment.Around the dining table, there were seven female students and me [the first author]. Most of the conversations were about academic issues, such as majors, assignments, and examinations. Mengmeng was new to this weekly church activity. When Mengmeng said that her major is Art History and Communication Art & Science (CAS), the other girls reacted immediately. One girl asked what CAS major was and Mengmeng gave detailed explanations to her. Then, another girl Yanyan asked whether Mengmeng could help her choose a picture for her assignment. Other girls overheard this request, and they all provided their opinions about the selection of pictures. One girl suggested Yanyan should choose a Chinese famous picture: “There are many characters in this picture, and there must be a lot of information you could describe and comment.” Mengmeng agreed with this girl. Yet, another girl gave a different opinion. She stated, “This picture is too well-known, and there must be many students choosing this picture for assignments.” Mengmeng also agreed. Together, they helped Yanyan decide on using the well-known Chinese picture for the assignment.(Field notes, 21 October 2016)
Such interactions reveal how informal learning takes place outside of class. Through social connections and communal supports, students can gain important knowledge and information, which they use to improve their academic performance. This pattern was highlighted in James Coleman’s (1988) argument that social capital can be transformed into other types of capital, such as human capital. Thus, by participating in church activities, Chinese international students strengthen their social capital, which in turn can benefit their academic experiences.“Kim [a Lighthouse Fellowship member] is a straight A student. So, if I have something I really don’t know, I can just ask her.”(Interview, 22 February 2017, in Chinese)
6.2. An Informal Academic Support with Learning Motivation
Echoing Linshu, many participants shared that most of the time, they do not demand direct academic support from their peers, rather, what they long for is company. This is precisely what the Chinese Christian community has provided to their members. It offers them a place to meet regularly and reminds them that whatever happens, their church peers and mentors—their sources of support—will always be there.“I met many good people in the church and I made close friends with some of them. We actually have many interactions during the weekdays, not just in church weekend activities. We study and hang out together. You know, when you study alone, you may feel lonely. But if you study with someone else, even you two are not studying the same subject, you still feel more encouraged and energetic. Being accompanied feels much better.”(Interview, 16 November 2016, in Chinese)
6.3. Drawbacks of Participating in the Church
Having “fixed times” and inflexible schedules at the church/fellowship, many participants put off other social opportunities both inside and outside of campus. As a consequence, most of their social interactions only occur within this Chinese Christian community.“[It has] both positive and negative sides. The positive side is that I get to meet so many friends. However, because the church activities have fixed times, I have to schedule everything around those times [and prioritize them over other things].”(Interview, 22 February 2017, in Chinese)
Similar to Feiyang, many participants admitted that because their parents have spent a great amount of money to send them abroad, they are expected to devote their time and effort to academic training. Time spent on religious activities is often considered as time taken away from studying, working, and job hunting. This has been a great concern of many participants’ parents in China.“[My parents] always tell me that I am spending too much time in the church and the fellowship. […] I myself don’t feel this way. But not only my parents, other people also asked me: ‘Do you want to be a missionary? Do you want to be a preacher? Do you want to be a pastor?’ I said: ‘No.’ Then they said: ‘You have spent so much time on this, do you think it’s worth?’”(Interview, 7 April 2017, in Chinese)
7. Discussion and Conclusions
8. Recommendations for Higher Education Institutions
Author Contributions
Funding
Conflicts of Interest
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1 | All names are pseudonyms. |
Pseudonym | Sex | Age | Major | Year in College | Baptism | First Generation Christian | Initial Interview Date | Interview Language |
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Linshu | F | 19 | Psychology | 2 | Yes | Yes | 16/11/2016 | Chinese |
BaiXi | F | 20 | Economics | 2 | Yes | Yes | 22/2/2017 | Chinese |
Xiaoshu | F | 21 | Earth Science | 2 | Yes | No | 22/2/2017 | Chinese |
Luo | F | 22 | Communication | 4 | Yes | No | 26/3/2017 | Chinese |
Feiyang | M | 21 | Information Cyber Security | 3 | Yes | Yes | 7/4/2017 | Chinese |
Jing | F | 19 | Math Actuarial Science | 1 | Yes | Yes | 27/4/2017 | Chinese |
Jie | F | 22 | Supply Chain Management | 4 | Yes | No | 17/5/2017 | Chinese |
Xian | M | 22 | Environmental Engineering | 3 | No | Yes | 8/8/2017 | Chinese |
Xiangke | F | 22 | Sociology | 3 | Yes | Yes | 8/8/2017 | Chinese |
Kou | M | 24 | Comparative Education; Hospitality Management | 6 | Yes | No | 15/8/2017 | Chinese |
Siwen | M | 23 | Computer Science | 5 | Yes | No | 10/8/2017 | Chinese |
Hui | F | 22 | Hospitality Management | 3 | Yes | Yes | 13/9/2017 | Chinese |
Yue | F | 22 | Hospitality Management | 3 | No | No | 13/9/2017 | Chinese |
Chenjing (mentor) | F | ~50 | - | - | Yes | Yes | 12/4/2017 | Chinese |
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Li, A.; Nguyen, C.; Choi, J. “Because of the Christian Fellowship, I Decided to Stay”: How Participating in a Christian Community Shapes the Social Experiences of Chinese International Students. Soc. Sci. 2019, 8, 234. https://doi.org/10.3390/socsci8080234
Li A, Nguyen C, Choi J. “Because of the Christian Fellowship, I Decided to Stay”: How Participating in a Christian Community Shapes the Social Experiences of Chinese International Students. Social Sciences. 2019; 8(8):234. https://doi.org/10.3390/socsci8080234
Chicago/Turabian StyleLi, Anke, Chi Nguyen, and Jinhee Choi. 2019. "“Because of the Christian Fellowship, I Decided to Stay”: How Participating in a Christian Community Shapes the Social Experiences of Chinese International Students" Social Sciences 8, no. 8: 234. https://doi.org/10.3390/socsci8080234
APA StyleLi, A., Nguyen, C., & Choi, J. (2019). “Because of the Christian Fellowship, I Decided to Stay”: How Participating in a Christian Community Shapes the Social Experiences of Chinese International Students. Social Sciences, 8(8), 234. https://doi.org/10.3390/socsci8080234