Comparing Gender Differences in Willingness to Accept Same- and Other-Sex Dyadic and Multi-Person Sexual Offers: An Examination of the Backlash Effect
Abstract
1. Introduction
1.1. Threesome Participation and the SDS
1.2. Sex, Gender, and the Backlash Effect
1.3. Stigma and Backlash in Same-Sex Sexual Behaviors
1.4. The Current Study
2. Method
2.1. Participants
2.2. Measures and Materials
2.2.1. Experimental Vignettes
2.2.2. Sexual Willingness Scale (SWS)
2.2.3. Anticipated Sexual Stigma Scale (ASSS)
2.2.4. Demographics
2.3. Procedure
2.4. Data Screening and Cleaning
3. Results
3.1. Anticipated Stigma
3.2. Willingness to Accept the Sexual Offer
3.3. The Mediating Role of Anticipated Stigma
4. Discussion
Limitations and Future Directions
5. Conclusions
Supplementary Materials
Author Contributions
Funding
Institutional Review Board Statement
Informed Consent Statement
Data Availability Statement
Acknowledgments
Conflicts of Interest
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Anticipated Stigma M (SD) | Willingness M (SD) | |||
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Male Participant | Other-Sex | Dyadic (N = 72) | 3.00 (1.05) | 5.44 (0.99) |
MST (N = 76) | 3.03 (0.91) | 5.73 (0.92) | ||
Same-Sex | Dyadic (N = 43) | 3.95 (1.18) | 3.71 (1.34) | |
MST (N = 151) | 3.18 (0.98) | 5.06 (1.24) | ||
Female Participant | Other-Sex | Dyadic (N = 41) | 4.25 (1.22) | 3.87 (1.23) |
MST (N = 45) | 4.25 (1.28) | 3.86 (1.65) | ||
Same-Sex | Dyadic (N = 37) | 4.48 (1.05) | 3.34 (1.43) | |
MST (N = 75) | 4.21 (1.01) | 3.27 (1.31) |
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Thompson, A.E.; Bensen, L.; Scoats, R. Comparing Gender Differences in Willingness to Accept Same- and Other-Sex Dyadic and Multi-Person Sexual Offers: An Examination of the Backlash Effect. Behav. Sci. 2025, 15, 1128. https://doi.org/10.3390/bs15081128
Thompson AE, Bensen L, Scoats R. Comparing Gender Differences in Willingness to Accept Same- and Other-Sex Dyadic and Multi-Person Sexual Offers: An Examination of the Backlash Effect. Behavioral Sciences. 2025; 15(8):1128. https://doi.org/10.3390/bs15081128
Chicago/Turabian StyleThompson, Ashley E., Lizzy Bensen, and Ryan Scoats. 2025. "Comparing Gender Differences in Willingness to Accept Same- and Other-Sex Dyadic and Multi-Person Sexual Offers: An Examination of the Backlash Effect" Behavioral Sciences 15, no. 8: 1128. https://doi.org/10.3390/bs15081128
APA StyleThompson, A. E., Bensen, L., & Scoats, R. (2025). Comparing Gender Differences in Willingness to Accept Same- and Other-Sex Dyadic and Multi-Person Sexual Offers: An Examination of the Backlash Effect. Behavioral Sciences, 15(8), 1128. https://doi.org/10.3390/bs15081128