Attachment Style During a Partner’s Deployment with the United States Navy: Associations with Relational Satisfaction, Stress, and Changes over Time
Abstract
1. Introduction
1.1. Military Couples as a Context for Studying Separation
1.2. Attachment, Stress, and Relational Satisfaction
1.3. Shifts in Attachment Style and Affectionate Writing
2. Materials and Methods
2.1. Participants
2.2. Pre-Screening Procedure
2.3. Experimental Procedures
- Think about the little things you miss about your romantic partner. Write a letter to your romantic partner describing the little things you miss about him. You may also write about your partner’s positive qualities (or the qualities that make you miss him).
- Think about how much your romantic partner means to you. Write a letter to your romantic partner describing your loving and caring feelings for him. You may also write about the reasons why you love your partner.
- Think about how much you appreciate your romantic partner. Write a letter to your romantic partner describing your appreciative feelings for him or her. You may also write about the things that your partner does that makes you appreciate him.
- Think about the television programs that you watched this past week. Give a detailed description of the television programs that you watched this past week.
- Think about the home you currently live in. Give a detailed description of your current residence.
- Think about your current job or the last job that you held. Give a detailed description of how you spent your time at work and the overall work environment in which you worked.
2.4. Compensation Procedure
2.5. Materials
2.6. Data Analysis
3. Results
3.1. Associations Among Attachment and Relational Satisfaction
3.2. Associations Among Attachment and Deployment Stress
3.3. Changes in Attachment Styles as a Function of Expressive Writing
4. Discussion
4.1. Attachment Style Correlations with Relational Satisfaction
4.2. Attachment Style Correlations with Deployment Stress
4.3. Changes in Attachment Style
4.4. Implications for Theory
4.5. Implications for Practice
5. Limitations and Conclusions
Author Contributions
Funding
Institutional Review Board Statement
Informed Consent Statement
Data Availability Statement
Acknowledgments
Conflicts of Interest
Authors’ Note
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Dependent Variable | Affectionate Writing | Innocuous Writing | No Writing | F-Value |
---|---|---|---|---|
Participant Age | 29.12 (5.98) | 31.96 (6.54) | 28.93 (5.97) | 2.04 |
Years in the Military | 3.94 (1.52) | 4.36 (1.95) | 4.72 (1.90) | 0.43 |
Weeks Deployed | 14.88 (4.24) | 14.81 (6.26) | 14.79 (6.21) | 1.30 |
Previous Times Deployed | 3.28 (1.81) | 3.26 (1.51) | 3.54(1.75) | 0.23 |
Relationship Length (in years) | 6.04 (3.92) | 8.04 (5.02) | 5.96 (4.24) | 0.81 |
Secure Attachment (Time 1) | 5.59 (0.57) | 5.75 (0.72) | 5.62 (0.80) | 0.38 |
Preoccupied Attachment (Time 1) | 4.77 (0.99) | 5.07 (1.11) | 4.68 (1.04) | 1.01 |
Fearful Attachment (Time 1) | 4.67 (1.21) | 4.90 (1.38) | 4.47 (1.33) | 2.10 |
Dismissive Attachment (Time 1) | 5.13 (1.10) | 5.67 (0.91) | 5.20 (1.09) | 0.76 |
Dependent Variable | Returned | Deployed | t-Value |
---|---|---|---|
Relational Satisfaction | 5.66 (0.76) | 5.81 (0.80) | −0.86 |
Deployment Stress | 2.91 (0.42) | 2.83 (0.49) | 1.23 |
Secure Attachment | 5.68 (0.81) | 5.68 (0.81) | −0.10 |
Preoccupied Attachment | 4.58 (1.24) | 4.50 (1.06) | 0.30 |
Fearful Attachment | 4.22 (1.61) | 4.13 (1.48) | 0.26 |
Dismissive Attachment | 5.27 (0.93) | 5.43 (0.81) | −0.77 |
Criterion Variable | Predictors | b | SE | β | t |
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Relational Satisfaction | Secure Attachment | 0.58 | 0.08 | 0.68 | 7.54 *** |
Preoccupied Attachment | −0.23 | 0.07 | −0.41 | −3.41 ** | |
Dismissive Attachment | 0.05 | 0.06 | 0.09 | 0.92 | |
Fearful Attachment | −0.18 | 0.05 | −0.40 | −3.40 ** | |
Deployment Stress | Number of Previous Deployments | −0.04 | 0.03 | −0.16 | −1.65 |
Secure Attachment | −0.15 | 0.07 | −0.22 | −2.09 * | |
Preoccupied Attachment | 0.17 | 0.06 | 0.39 | 2.65 ** | |
Dismissive Attachment | −0.12 | 0.05 | −0.27 | −2.23 * | |
Fearful Attachment | 0.14 | 0.05 | 0.40 | 2.92 ** |
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Hansom, A.M.; Guerrero, L.K. Attachment Style During a Partner’s Deployment with the United States Navy: Associations with Relational Satisfaction, Stress, and Changes over Time. Int. J. Environ. Res. Public Health 2025, 22, 1056. https://doi.org/10.3390/ijerph22071056
Hansom AM, Guerrero LK. Attachment Style During a Partner’s Deployment with the United States Navy: Associations with Relational Satisfaction, Stress, and Changes over Time. International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health. 2025; 22(7):1056. https://doi.org/10.3390/ijerph22071056
Chicago/Turabian StyleHansom, Alaina M., and Laura K. Guerrero. 2025. "Attachment Style During a Partner’s Deployment with the United States Navy: Associations with Relational Satisfaction, Stress, and Changes over Time" International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health 22, no. 7: 1056. https://doi.org/10.3390/ijerph22071056
APA StyleHansom, A. M., & Guerrero, L. K. (2025). Attachment Style During a Partner’s Deployment with the United States Navy: Associations with Relational Satisfaction, Stress, and Changes over Time. International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health, 22(7), 1056. https://doi.org/10.3390/ijerph22071056