1. Introduction
Religion is not only about beliefs or belonging to religious institutions but also includes personal self-transcendent experiences (cf. bonding experiences,
Saroglou 2011). Various religious writings refer to experiences of a felt connectedness with something beyond the self: feelings of oneness, seeing angels, hearing voices of the divine or other signs of a “sensed presence” (cf.
James [1902] 1985).
When people have special, uncommon experiences in a religious context, certain experiences may be recognized or labeled as religious experiences by a religious community (
Taves 2008). However, in secular societies where fewer and fewer people belong to traditional religious institutions, people also report to have had special unusual experiences. These experiences may raise existential questions or trigger self-transformation processes.
A spiritual experience can be regarded as a self-transformation in which the boundaries between self and the environment change. The present study focuses on a particular experience in which the experience of the self clearly deviates from what is usually experienced as one’s normal self: the out-of-body experience (OBE). In an OBE people have the impression that the self or their center of awareness is located outside their body (
Alvarado 2000). These impressions and the perceived nature of OBEs by experiencers may confirm or challenge prior (religious, scientific, paranormal) beliefs about the body-soul, the afterlife, time, space (if interested in views on the
origin of OBEs, which is not the topic of the present study; see, for instance, Alvarado’s review of parapsychological and psychological research,
Alvarado 2000).
The majority of unusual experiences (not only OBEs) is reported to be positive, and many people use spiritual terms to refer to their experiences (
Braud 2012). However, it is important to note that in the current study an OBE is not a priori regarded as a (positive) spiritual experience. For some people, the OBE can be scary, a frightening experience (
Wilde 2011) or it may give rise to an existential crisis, for instance because the everyday experience of “having a ‘real me’ that ‘resides’ in my body” is challenged (
Aspell and Blanke 2009, p. 74, referring to
Blackmore 1982).
In a broader sense than with regard to OBEs, “loss of self” or a dissolution of self-boundaries has been both related to mental illness and anxiety (e.g., pathological dissociation-type experiences—also, in particular, in OBE samples,
Murray and Fox 2005;
Kohls and Walach 2007) as well as to (positive) self-transcendent experiences, characterized by transient mental states of decreased self-salience and increased feelings of connectedness, such as in mystical experiences (e.g.,
Yaden et al. 2017). The main aim of the present study is to investigate when “loss of self” during or after an OBE may result in scaredness and anxiety. It is important to get more insight in what is meant by “loss of self” (cf.
Yaden et al. 2017). For this reason, we use in the present study different conceptualizations of self loss assessed by using validated scales, as well as closed- and open-ended questions, to study people’s own descriptions, understanding and possible meaning making processes after the OBE.
1.1. Loss of Self with and without a Relational Component
Yaden et al. (
2017) make a distinction between two components of self-transcendent experiences: an annhiliational component, characterized by a “dissolution of the bodily self accompanied by reduced self-boundaries and self salience” (pp. 2–3), and a relational component “referring to the sense of connectedness, even to the point of oneness, with something beyond the self, usually with other people and aspects of one’s environment or surrounding context” (p. 3). They suggest that mystical experiences involve both the annihilational and relational part (e.g., a loss of self in a greater unity) but that depersonalization episodes may involve the annhiliational part but not the relational part of self-transcendent experiences (p. 7).
An out-of-body experience (OBE) can be part of a near-death-experience (NDE), experiences that some people experience when they are close to death.
Greyson (
1994) emphasizes transcendental and mystical elements in his definition of near-death-experiences. OBEs may include mystical elements as well, as part of an NDE or otherwise, referring to self loss with the relational component, but an OBE can also be experienced as self loss without the relational component: purely seeing the bodily self from a distance.
Kohls and Walach (
2006) have also noted the importance of distinguishing different types of experiences. They made an instrument in which four types of so-called exceptional human experiences (i.e., “experiences that touch on areas outside the common-sense reality of our everyday world”, p. 126) are measured. What is relevant here is that their factor “positive spiritual experiences”, that involves a relational component (example items “I am illumined by divine light and divine strength” and “A higher being protects or helps me”) could be empirically differentiated in a large sample (n = 700) from the factor “ego loss/deconsruction” (example items “a part of me dies”, “my consciousness separates from by body”), that may be regarded as self loss without a relational component, and is thus solely an annihilation of the self. Spiritual practitioners, who practice meditative or spiritual techniques on a regular basis, had higher scores than non-practitioners (and a clinical sample) on both ego loss/deconstruction and positive spiritual experiences, which seems to be in line with the idea that spiritual experiences can involve an annhiliational and relational component. Only ego loss/depersonalization was significantly related to psychological distress (e.g., anxiety, depression, somatization), but, interestingly, exclusively in the spiritual non-practicing sample.
Kohls and Walach (
2006,
2007) suggest that the resulting distress may also depend on how ego loss is evaluated. Evaluation might be different for spiritual practitioners who may be familiar with temporarily ego loss or when it fits in a certain spiritual narrative (i.e., “ego death”).
People who have reported an out-of-body experience and live in a secularized country (i.e., the Netherlands) are likely to be largely non-spiritual practitioners. Some of them may therefore feel scared or anxious during or after an experienced loss of self, particularly self loss without the relational component. More specifically, in a sample of people who reported an out-of-body experience, it is expected that there will be no relationship between “loss of self’ with a relational aspect (mystical experiences or positive spiritual experiences) and anxiety (Hypothesis 1a). Only “loss of self” without a relational aspect (ego loss/de-construction) will be related to anxiety (Hypothesis 1b). In order to get more information about the nature of the respondents’ out-of-body experience, we also asked the following open-ended question: “Describe your most impressive OBE”.
1.2. Loss of Self as Inflexibility to Attune or Return to an Internal State
To further explore the relationship between “loss of self” and anxiety, it is important to delve into the concept “attention”. Two psychological concepts that may be important when we are dealing with out-of-body experiences and other self-transcendent experiences are: absorption and mindfulness.
Attention plays an important role in definitions of mindfulness. For instance,
Marlatt and Kristeller (
1999), cited by
Baer (
2003, p. 68), describe mindfulness as “bringing one’s complete attention to the present experience on a moment-to-moment basis”. Several empirical studies have shown that mindfulness is negatively associated with anxiety and other psychopathological symptoms (
Tomlinson et al. 2018). Excessive self-focus (i.e., rumination) is generally seen as something that reinforces fears and anxieties. Loss of self in the sense of being freed from the whirlpool of thoughts and feelings in which we can become entangled (“our ego”) may then reduce fears and anxieties. In their discussion of mindfulness,
Yaden et al. (
2017) seem to mean this type of self loss, and for this reason they include mindfulness among the “self-transcendent” experiences.
Blaser et al. (
2014) emphasize a different property of mindfulness that also has to do with focusing attention, but that is not (only) about a loss of the self, but rather the re-connection with the self: attuning or returning to an internal state and the bodily self. They say that “to be mindful, to look inside from within, we have to cross our self-boundary from outside to within with the location of our attention” (
Blaser et al. 2014, p. 156) and “When we arrive within ourselves, we are bodily connected with our emotions, experiences and images” (
Blaser et al. 2014, p. 156). Despite the differences between Yaden et al. and Blaser et al., a certain self-regulation of attention seems to be central in both descriptions of mindfulness.
Attention also plays an important albeit different role in descriptions of the personality trait absorption. Absorption (
Tellegen and Atkinson 1974, p. 268) refers to individual differences in “the disposition for having episodes of ‘total’ attention that fully engage one’s representational (i.e., perceptual, enactive, imaginative, and ideational) resources”. As their attention turns inwards, perceptions, feelings, images are experienced as “sensory” experiences for people with high scores on absorption. Whether caused by an internal or external stimulus, experiences feel “real” (
Lifshitz et al. 2019). Several empirical studies show a robust association between absorption and self-transcendent experiences, such as mystical and spiritual experiences (
Coleman et al. 2019;
Granqvist et al. 2012;
Lifshitz et al. 2019).
Various authors also stress a relationship between absorption and dissociation-like phenomena (
Acunzo et al. 2020;
Granqvist et al. 2012). In addition, it has been shown that both the trait absorption and dissociation-like experiences relate to the occurrence of out-of-body experiences (
Aspell and Blanke 2009;
Alvarado 2000). According to
Murray and Fox (
2005), OBEs are more likely to occur in people who have a weaker sense of embodiment. Some people may have lost touch with their bodily self, never felt a connection or lost it very early in childhood. Severe anxiety or trauma(tic childhood events) can play a role in the development of dissociation and the occurrence of OBEs (
Alvarado 2000 referring to (
Irwin 1986)). For example, sexual abuse, a serious accident or extreme grief can make someone want to break or avoid contact with their body and inner feelings, which can result in a generalized dissociation between their sense of self and the body.
Blaser et al. (
2014) suggest that trauma may have consequences for the ability to be mindful or to recognize a mindful state of being: “when the self-boundary is not well defined, is blurred for example by trauma, we cannot longer be sure if we are inside or outside our self-boundary with the location of our attention, that is, inside or outside our innerworld, mindful or not mindful” (
Blaser et al. 2014, p. 155).
In a sample of OBErs, it is expected that having difficulties to attune or return to an internal state or bodily self (low mindfulness) is associated with anxiety (Hypothesis 2a). In addition, it is assumed that high absorption (attention away from the body and the here-and-now) is positively related to mystical experiences and negatively related to (attention to here-and-now in) mindfulness (Hypothesis 2b).
1.3. Loss of Self as a Result of Not Making Sense of the OBE
Finally, the element “time” is important. Descriptions of self-transcendent experiences, including mystical experiences, emphasize that these are brief mental states (cf. James’ criteria of mystical experience: transiency, (
James [1902] 1985). So, if self-transcendent experiences are characterized as “loss of self” it is clear that we are talking about a temporarily loss of self and not an enduring or definite loss of self.
Paloutzian (
2016), referring to (
Paloutzian and Park 2013), calls religious and spiritual self-transformation—which can be triggered by intense experiences—a meaning-making process in which various components in the meaning system, including the self (self-schemas), change. According to the James–Boisen formula (
Hood et al. 2018, p. 298), a religious experience can be considered as “the meaningful transcendence of limits of the resolution of discontent, rooted in a sense of the divine”. We may understand this as follows: through the “self” that has been constructed, we encounter limitations and barriers in life (discontent) and during a self-transcending experience these limitations may disappear (resolution). It depends on the interpretation whether we call this experience religious or spiritual (
Taves 2008). OBEs and NDEs have been viewed by people who have them as “turning points” in their lives, that are sometimes viewed as a “spiritual awakening” or trigger a quest for meaning (
Wilde and Murray 2009,
2010). As was earlier said, for some people it can be a frightening or confusing experience (
Wilde 2011). The ego aims to maintain and protect a certain conception of the self. So perhaps ego loss and changes always involve a certain amount of fear. However, after a while, a new stable self-organization should develop. It is important for people to develop a coherent self in order to be able to maintain themselves in daily life, process information and respond to the environment. Various psychological studies emphasize the importance of self-concept clarity (
Campbell et al. 1996): the perception that one has a clear and coherent self (i.e., internally consistent and temporally stable). Self-concept clarity (i.e., having a clear idea of who and what I am) is usually related to psychological adjustment (
Bigler et al. 2001).
An out-of-body experience is a very intense form of self loss because there is literally no more contact with one’s bodily self. It can be imagined that an out-of-body experience can evoke a lot in people, perhaps metaphysical thoughts about consciousness that can change one’s beliefs (i.e., body versus soul, life after death). Additionally, if people suddenly see themselves from a distance, this may evoke thoughts about “the self”: “who am I actually in this world?” And “why should this happen to me right now?” It is therefore important to investigate if and how people make sense of their out-of-body experience. People who fail to make sense of the OBE may continue to experience a certain degree of self loss, as they are still looking for a new orientation in the world, a center from which they perceive reality, what they believe in and what they stand for (i.e., self-concept unclarity). In a sample of people who reported an out-of-body experience, it is therefore assumed that self-concept unclarity is related to anxiety (Hypothesis 3a) and that respondents who do not succeed in making sense of the OBE, experience more self-concept unclarity (Hypothesis 3b). To get insight in meaning making processes after the OBE and respondents’ own explanations of the OBE, we also asked the following two open-ended questions: “Did you make sense of your OBE? How? Why (not)?” and “(How) do you explain this experience?”
3. Results
3.1. Descriptions of OBE and Aftereffects
Respondents were asked to describe their “most impressive out-of-body experience”. A large majority (about 60%; comparable to
Alvarado 2000, review of 11 studies) describes the experience as floating outside or seeing their physical body from a short distance, often from “above”. Others provide (additional) information about where they float (e.g., far away, travelling to another dimension, through the walls) or what they perceive (e.g., seeing other people, other “selves”, deceased relatives, their own funeral). See citations of examples below.
“See myself lying on my bed. Look down at myself from above”.
(Woman, aged 27)
“See how I was abused”.
(Woman, 49 years old)
“Lying in a bed I have the impression that I am floating upstairs. Then I have a conversation with two other selves, who were the same in appearance. I was all three of me. The conversation was about whether or not I would jump (from somewhere, to a place without a floor). After a while I became aware that I was in bed, but I couldn’t move my body. After a while I was able to move again and I realized that this was a special experience”.
(Man, 60 years old)
“During work I came under power current for some time. It was then that I entered an avenue full of flowers. At the end of this corridor was my deceased sister-in-law, beckoning me to go back. It was then that I woke up at the ICU in the hospital”.
(Man, 47 years old)
“Quite difficult to choose, but the one in which I was allowed/could pick up an acquaintance to go with her to what I call the other worlds. I have been out of my body since my childhood, so I have traveled a lot and am familiar with a number of these worlds or realities”.
(Women, 54 years old)
A small group was explicit about how they evaluate/appreciate the OBE. For instance they used positive words (about 15%) to describe their experiences, such as “bright light”, “peaceful”, “calm”, “rest”, “beautiful colors”, “beautiful flowers”. About 8% used negative words, such as “scared”, “anxious”, “terrifying”, “fright”, fear”. Some used both negative and positive words to describe their experience.
The majority of the respondents affirmed “It was interesting” (79%), “because of the experience, I now live more intensely” (56%) and “because of the experience, I now know something of death” (50%). Some of the respondents said “I got scared” (22%) or “It was confusing” (46%).
3.2. “Loss of Self” and Anxiety
Table 1 shows the means, standard deviations and intercorrelations of the variables in this study, that were assessed by scales. Average scores show, for instance, that mystical experiences (e.g., felt oneness with all things) are relatively frequently reported in contrast to ego loss/deconstruction (e.g., a part of me is dying. Almost half of the respondents report that descriptions as “I have had an experience in which I realized the oneness of myself with all things” and “ I have had an experience in which something greater than myself seemed to absorb me” apply to their experience, a quarter is unsure and less than a third say that these descriptions do not apply to their experiences. But we cannot be totally sure if respondents referred (only) to the OBE when they answered this question or other questions in the mysticism scale.
The majority of respondents seldom experienced positive spiritual experiences, such as “I feel the presence of spiritual/extraterrestrial beings”. Inspection of the items reveals that respondents score relatively high (i.e., it is sometimes or often experienced by sixty percent of the respondents) on the following item: “a higher being protects or helps me”. Additional t-tests revealed that respondents who, because of their OBE, “now know something about death” and “now live more intensely” had significantly more positive spiritual experiences (respectively, t = 3719, p < 0.0010; t = 3038, p < 0.01). In contrast, respondents who found the OBE confusing had significantly less positive spiritual experiences (t = −2422, p < 0.05).
Some respondents suffered from anxiety complaints. However, compared to average normative data within a non-clinical sample (
Crawford et al. 2001), there are no indications of more (or less) anxiety complaints in this sample of respondents with an out-of-body experience. Additional
t-tests revealed that respondents who affirmed “I got scared” because of the OBE reported significantly more anxiety complaints (t = 2104,
p < 0.05) than respondents who deny this. Also respondents who found the OBE confusing reported more anxiety complaints (t = 2116,
p < 0.05).
As expected, there are no significant correlations between “loss of self” measures
with a relational component (mystical experiences and positive spiritual experiences) and anxiety. This means that Hypothesis 1a is confirmed. In addition, the lowest row of
Table 1 shows that there is a significant positive correlation (r = −0.56 ***) between “loss of self”
without a relational aspect, ego loss/deconstruction, and anxiety. This means that Hypothesis 1b is supported as well. Additional
t-tests revealed that respondents who found the OBE confusing had significantly higher ego loss/deconstruction scores (t = 2269,
p < 0.05).
Mindfulness is negatively and moderately to strongly (−0.55 ***) correlated with anxiety, implying that low mindfulness is, as hypothesized (Hypothesis 2a), associated with anxiety. Additional t-tests revealed that respondents who affirmed “I got scared” because of the OBE scored lower on mindfulness (3033, p < 0.01). Respondents who found the OBE interesting (t = 2052, p < 0.05) had higher scores on mindfulness. Absorption is, in line with several prior studies, positively correlated (r = 0.40 ***) to mystical experiences and negatively and weaker related (r = −0.23 *) to mindfulness. This means that Hypothesis 2b is confirmed.
Finally,
Table 1 shows that self-concept unclarity is also relatively strongly correlated to anxiety. This means that Hypothesis 3a is confirmed. Additional
t-tests revealed that respondents who got scared and who found the OBE confusing experienced more self-concept unclarity (respectively, t = 3033,
p < 0.01; t = 2090,
p < 0.05). Because there are moderate to strong intercorrelations between ego loss/deconstruction, self-concept unclarity and low mindfulness, regression analyses were conducted to test their independent contribution in the explanation of anxiety. Findings from regression analyses are shown below in
Table 2.
Table 2 shows that the self loss measures ego loss, self-concept unclarity and low mindfulness independently and significantly predicts anxiety. The regression models explain 43% (
Table 2a) and 52% (
Table 2b) of the variance in anxiety. The relationship between absorption and higher anxiety disappears in the regression equation (
Table 2a) that includes mindfulness and self-concept unclarity. Interestingly, positive spiritual experiences (
Table 2b) also significantly predict
lower anxiety.
3.3. Making Sense of OBE, Loss of Self and Anxiety
The second column of
Table 3 shows that most respondents could make sense of the experience, immediately or after a while. The categorization of the qualitative material suggests that respondents who could make sense of the OBE immediately after its occurrence “assimilated” the experience in an existing belief system or that the “nature” of the experience helped them make sense of the OBE. Respondents who finally made sense of the OBE were during a longer period involved in a meaning making process, and some of them may have changed (“accommodation”) their meaning making system, for instance after discussing their experience with others or finding information about the OBE. Almost twenty percent did not succeed in making sense of the OBE. Some just did not like the question and thought they did not need to make sense of it. Others still did nott understand the experience or wanted to forget it. Some respondents wanted to share their experience with others and complained that others, for example medical caregivers, did not want to talk about the OBE.
In order to test our final hypothesis, some
t-tests were conducted to see if there were differences in loss of self and anxiety in the respondents who did (n = 137) and who did not (n = 34) succeed in making sense of their OBE.
Table 4 shows that, as hypothesized, self-concept unclarity is significantly higher in respondents who did not succeed in making sense of the OBE. This implies that Hypothesis 3b is confirmed. However, ego loss, low mindfulness and anxiety are also higher in respondents who did not succeed in making sense of the OBE.
Table 5 shows the answers on the final open-ended question that is presented in this study: if and how respondents explain their OBE. The first column shows example categories of the answers, and the second column shows example quotes. As can be noticed, many respondents (32.3%) have no explanation and a relatively large part of the respondents (18%) answered this question by repeating that it was a special “experience”. In addition, respondents used medical explanations (16%), spiritual explanations (12%) and psychological explanations or interpretations (added up 9%). See in
Table 5 other categories with a smaller number of respondents.
Additional analyses suggest that for respondents who do use spiritual explanations (n = 22) it is easier to make sense of their out-of-body experience than for respondents who do not use spiritual (n = 149) explanations (r = 0.25 **, p < 0.01; t = −2.214, p < 0.05). There is also a significant but weak negative correlation with self-concept unclarity (r = −0.16 *, p < 0.05; t = 2.515, p < 0.05), suggesting that these respondents are less confused about their identity,. and a weak negative correlation with anxiety (r = −0.17 *; t = 2.283, p < 0.05). Respondents who found the OBE “interesting” (t = 2052, p < 0.05) used significantly more spiritual explanations for the OBE (t = 2908, p < 0.01). Finally, there is also a positive correlation between the prevalence of positive spiritual experiences (e.g., “I am illuminated by divine light and strength”) and using spiritual explanations to make sense of the OBE (r = 0.34 **; t = −3.332, p < 0.01).
4. Discussion
Should we regard “loss of self” during or after an out-of-body experience (OBE) as spiritual or scary? The short answer is: both. For some it is spiritual, for others it is scary, or scary and spiritual at the same time. It can also be regarded as neither spiritual nor scary. In the present study we tried to learn more about the mechanisms that determine when people suffer from anxiety complaints after an OBE. But before we delve into the main topic of this article, let us first deal with the possible relation between OBE and spirituality in this sample.
There are, of course, different views on what is regarded as “spiritual”, and we did not ask directly: “Would you call your OBE ‘spiritual’?” In order to attempt to answer this question, we therefore look in succession at the respondents’
explanations of the OBE, the
nature of their experience and
inner changes. First of all, the data show that 12% of the respondents used spiritual
explanations for their out-of-body experiences. Their answers refer to the separation of body and soul, the existence of another (spiritual) dimension of consciousness, or to spiritual agency (e.g., deceased relatives with personal messages for the respondents). A second indication may be their own description of the
nature of the OBE. If we look at the reported experiences, we see that about 15% uses positive words (e.g., bright light, terrifying
and beautiful at the same time) that are often associated with self-transcendent experiences, which can be related to spirituality (
Yaden et al. 2017;
Kohls and Walach 2006). A much larger number of respondents (almost half of them) agrees with descriptions referring to mystical experiences, and a smaller part had positive spiritual experiences, such as feeling the presence of spiritual beings. However, we cannot be sure if these experiences refer (only) to the OBE. Finally, a criterium for spirituality may be whether an experience leads to an inner self-transforming change (cf.
Van der Lans 1998;
Hood et al. 2018 referring to the James–Boisen formula). The data suggest that for about a third of the respondents the OBE has triggered a meaning making process: they could only make sense of the OBE
after a while (e.g., after an emotional process, reading about OBEs and talking to others), and this may have caused inner changes. However, we do not know if respondents would “label” possible inner changes as spiritual. In addition, about half of the respondents reported that they “because of the OBE, now know something of death” or “because of the OBE, live more intensely”. So, this suggests that views on life and death changed for a part of the respondents. It is clear that more systematic research is needed to answer this question, but all together the data suggest that the OBE is related to spirituality in at least a part of the respondents. However, this study also shows that there are more ways to see or respond to an OBE.
The main aim of the present study was to investigate
when “loss of self” results in anxiety. Fortunately, the proportion of respondents with anxiety complaints is small. Our quantitative findings suggests that it depends on the type of “self loss” if there is a relationship with anxiety. Specifically, the results show, in line with the suggestion of
Yaden et al. (
2017 p. 7), that there is no empirical relationship between anxiety and “loss of self” with an annhilational
and relational component, a sense of connectedness with something beyond the self (i.e., mystical experiences, positive spiritual experiences). There is more anxiety in respondents (1) who experience “loss of self” with an
annhilitational (dissolution of bodily self) and
without a
relational component (ego loss/deconstruction), but also (2) when there is less ability to (re)turn one’s attention to an internal bodily state (low mindfulness), and (3) when there is a lack of self-concept unclarity (no stable coherent identity). Respondents who did not succeed in making sense of their OBE, experience more anxiety and in line with the just-mentioned results, more ego loss, lower mindfulness and (in particular) more self-concept unclarity. Below we will discuss these results in more detail.
4.1. Making Sense of, and Explaining, an Out-of-Body Experience
An OBE is a very intense form of self loss (seeing one’s bodily self from a distance) that may evoke metaphysical thoughts but also thoughts about “the self”. It was hypothesized that making sense of the experience (e.g., the meaning making process after the OBE) would reduce self-concept unclarity. Meaning making helps creating a new ”life narrative” that makes it possible to develop a coherent identity: who am I in this world, what do I stand for? And vice versa, not making sense of the experience would then be related to self-concept unclarity: continuing confusion about who I am in this world, and what I stand for. This is exactly what we found. The results also showed a significant correlation with other forms of self loss, such as ego loss/de-construction and low mindfulness. It is interesting to look at the reasons some respondents mention when they were unable to make sense of their OBE. They can perhaps be interpreted as a lack of connectedness with their inner self and with the world (as we also see in ego loss/de-construction items): either they feel rejected by others (e.g., a physician), who do not want to talk to them about the OBE, or they reject the experience in themselves. The latter makes it difficult (or helps avoiding) to attune to an inner state, which may explain the lower scores on mindfulness.
The above-mentioned and other findings illustrate the importance of acknowledging the experience and communication. In particular, the respondents that made sense of the OBE
after a while talked to others about the experience. In their qualitative research on NDEs and OBEs, Wilde and colleagues (
Wilde and Murray 2009,
2010) emphasize the importance of listening and giving room to people’s own understanding of the OBE. They give illustrative examples of meaning making processes after an OBE and NDE (some of which resemble the descriptions we found in our research) and the impact on one’s identity.
A relatively large part of the respondents does not have an explanation for the OBE. If the respondents do have an explanation, medical and psychological explanations and interpretations (added together 25%) are slightly more frequently mentioned than spiritual explanations (12%). This is perhaps not strange in a largely secularized society such as the Netherlands. Zooming in on the psychological explanations and meaning making processes, it can be noticed that for a small proportion of the respondents the experience is related to pain and trauma. Some point to underlying traumatic events that they believe may have triggered the OBE (sexual abuse, grief) but also having been in a physically life-threatening situation. Moreover, thoughts and feelings after the OBE (e.g., the fear of becoming mad) may be perceived as traumatic. Although this is a small proportion of the respondents, it can be important to gauge the care needs of people who report an OBE in follow-up studies (in-depth interviews) and perhaps also in a health care context.
Our findings suggest that for respondents who
do use spiritual explanations (e.g., “your soul leaves your body”), it is easier to (immediately) make sense of their OBE than for respondents who do not use spiritual explanations. Interestingly, additional
t-tests revealed that respondents who identify as “atheist” or “searching for meaning” have significantly more (respectively, t = 2.409,
p < 0.05; t = 3.740,
p < 0.01) difficulties to (immediately) make sense of the OBE. Respondents who do use spiritual explanations also experience significantly less anxiety and more self-concept clarity. Perhaps the vocabulary that is common in certain spiritual narratives is better suited to what is actually
experienced during an OBE: the feeling that one’s center of awareness, often referred to as mind or spirit, is located outside the physical body. It could also be that a
temporary loss of self is assessed more positively, perhaps even welcomed and expected, when using a spiritual framework (see
Kohls and Walach 2007).
The inspection of the data reveals that some respondents say they cannot explain (e.g., rationally, medically, spiritually) their OBE, but still succeeded in making sense of the experience.
Van Leeuwen and Van Elk (
2019) argue that when scientists try to understand spiritual
experiences, it is important to not only focus on abstract beliefs and attributions (“belief in God”; it was a higher spirit who protects me) that may refer to explanations but also on what experiences mean for people “personally” in their lives. Perhaps in-depth interviews and open-ended questions are better suited to portray these
personal experiences and meanings. This increases the chance that explanations are not (ostensibly) directly related to spirituality (e.g., “think it was a sort of processing of my great sorrow”,
Table 5) but perhaps referring more to “the resolution of discontent” (cf. James-Boisen formula) may become more visible.
4.2. Appreciation and Eloquence of the Experience Itself
Interestingly, a relatively large group of respondents does not seem to feel the need to explain the experience. When we asked about their own explanation of the OBE, they simply repeated that it was a (very) special experience, an experience that is often positive and welcomed. This suggests that the experience itself has a certain eloquence for a part of the respondents. And a lot of respondents who could immediately make sense of the experience also mention the nature of the experience (“it was a beautiful experience”; “it had to be like this”; “the experience itself gives me answers”). This may be comparable to the experience of falling in love. It just happens, and you do not know why, but it is (scary and) beautiful. The feeling and image of such an experience may overrule the need to explain the experience.
This also raises the question of whether the nature of the experience plays (phenomenologically) an even more important role in the emergence of aftereffects than we have hitherto asserted. Positive spiritual experiences and mystical experiences (
relational component: a sense of connectedness with something beyond the self,
Yaden et al. 2017) were not correlated to anxiety complaints and positive spiritual experiences were associated with less perceived confusion because of the OBE and lower anxiety complaints in the regression analysis (
Table 2b). A follow-up question in future studies could be whether people are simply unlucky when the experience has no positive relational component or whether this is influenced by other factors (see
Cassol et al. 2019 for a recent study on distressing NDE accounts).
4.3. “Attention Regulation” as a Skill?
“Attention” seems to play an interesting role in the occurrence of self-transcendent spiritual experiences, as well as anxiety. As expected, anxiety was higher in OBE respondents with
lower mindfulness scores, which may imply that they have difficulties to return or attune to an internal state or bodily self (cf.
Blaser et al. 2014). In OBErs a general weaker sense of embodiment (“loss of bodily self”) as well as higher scores on absorption are not unusual. Absorption, having episodes of “total” attention that fully engage one’s perceptual, imaginative, ideational resources, was positively correlated to mystical experience (see also
Granqvist et al. 2012;
Lifshitz et al. 2019), as well as to lower mindfulness and anxiety. However, regression analysis revealed that absorption did not contribute to anxiety in a model that also includes low mindfulness. This suggests that some OBErs who suffer from anxiety complaints find it hard to be mindful (attention
to the body and the here-and-now) which may be partly due to trauma or a distressing OBE but perhaps also to higher scores on the trait absorption (attention
away from the body and the here-and now).
In the present study, one person reported that it is quite common to have an out-of-body experience during a meditation, which may indicate that extending one’s sense of self can be achieved through practice. A recent study from
De Castro (
2015) shows that practicing meditation increases both mindfulness (related to less anxiety in the present study)
and mystical experiences (related to absorption in the present study). Although one may think of absorption and mindfulness as the opposite when you look at the direction of one’s attention (i.e., attention turned
from the body and the here-and-now in absorption versus attention turned
towards the body and the here-and-now in mindfulness), some people may score high on both absorption and mindfulness, perhaps because they have (trained) a certain flexibility in the regulation of where they turn their attention to. This could be an interesting topic for future studies.
4.4. Limitations
This study is not without limitations. First of all, we now have doubts about the formulation of the open-ended question “Describe your most impressive OBE.”. Some people have multiple OBEs, and we wanted them to focus only on one experience. However, the question was a bit suggestive because it implied that it was an impressive OBE. One person said it was not. It would have been better to ask the question differently, for example: “If you have had multiple OBEs, describe one that you remember best”. Secondly, because we wanted to reduce the length of the questionnaire we decided to work with subsamples, which means that only half of the respondents answered questions about absorption, mysticism (subsample 1), positive spiritual experiences and ego loss/deconstruction (subsample 2). Nevertheless, we dare to say with conviction that it has been made plausible enough that there is no reason to assume that self loss with a relational component is related to anxiety complaints and that there is reason to assume that ego loss, low mindfulness and self-concept unclarity are all associated with anxiety. That does not alter the fact that it would be good to replicate our findings in a larger sample. Thirdly, non-experimental, non-longitudinal, correlational research cannot prove causation. We can only conclude that we found a relationship between some forms of self loss and anxiety complaints. Pre-measurement and post-measurement would provide more insight into cause-effect relationships, but that is difficult in the study of spontaneous experiences such as OBEs. We included some questions about aftereffects (e.g., “I got scared”) and meaning making after the OBE (Did you make sense of the OBE?), which were found to be related to self loss measures as well as anxiety complaints. This makes it perhaps more plausible that the OBE triggers anxiety in a proportion of the respondents.
Finally, it is clear that there is a cultural component involved when we talk about “the self” and “self loss”. We have attempted to operationalize different conceptualizations of self loss using psychological concepts constructed by Western researchers. We assumed, for instance, that in a largely secularized country such as the Netherlands (among spiritual non-practioners, cf.
Kohls and Walach 2007), ego loss/deconstruction would be related to anxiety and we hypothesized that self-concept unclarity, as a result of not making sense of the OBE, would be associated with more anxiety. However, research on self-concept clarity suggests that self-confidence depends much less on having a stable or coherent self in non-western cultures than in western cultures (
Campbell et al. 1996). The question is therefore whether our findings could be replicated in a non-western country with more spiritual or religious practitioners.
4.5. To Conclude
Despite these limitations, the present study helped gain a little more insight into when “loss of self” in a sample of OBEs is related to anxiety (fortunately not often), and it suggests that it relates to the type of “loss of self” that is experienced. Hopefully, this research has done justice to the variety of OBE experiences, interpretations and explanations of our respondents. The present study may also invite to further reflect on the concept of “self” and “self loss” and everything we, as humans, mean by it when we try to describe ourselves and our experiences (e.g., bodily self, mind, soul, ego, identity).